The rules of courtesy are the most important attribute of every educated person. Good manners must be learned from early age and steadfastly observe them under any circumstances, in any environment. Let's find out what are the rules of politeness in communication at home, at school, on a walk, in public places.
What is courtesy for?
Politeness is a manifestation of good upbringing, which directly indicates the level of a person’s culture, his wealth inner peace. The rules of politeness were not created by chance: it is much easier for educated people to expand their circle of contacts and achieve their goals.
In fact, being a polite person is not so difficult. It is enough to instill good manners in yourself and not to forget to apply them everywhere and everywhere. After some time, they will become a habit, and such behavior will become the absolute norm.
Rice. 1. Even small children should know the rules of politeness.
But how does a polite person behave in society? Let's look at the most common life situations.
- When meeting with a familiar person or group of people, it is imperative to say hello. You need to do this correctly: smile friendly, look the interlocutor straight in the eye, pronounce the greeting clearly, with soft, courteous intonations.
You can say hello to friends or classmates by simply saying “Hello!”. For all other people, the greeting should be more restrained - “Good afternoon (morning, evening)!”, “Hello!”, But in no case “Hey, you”, “Hello” and so on. This indicates a low culture of a person.
Rice. 2. Meeting with friends.
- Seeing a friend on the street, you should not run towards him, pushing passers-by in the way. If a chance meeting took place in a cafe, cinema or theater, it is enough to nod in greeting, but not shout it out.
- In public places, you should not talk or laugh too loudly, gesticulate excessively emotionally.
- The rules of courtesy also provide for a mandatory farewell when leaving.
- Unfamiliar or older people should be addressed to "You". And only with friends, classmates, relatives, it is appropriate to appeal to “You”.
In everyday life for real polite person there are always words that are commonly called "magic". After all, even in the most difficult situation, they will help to find mutual understanding with the interlocutor. Such words include "Thank you", "Please", "Sorry", "Please ...".
Polite Behavior
But not only the use of polite words can make a person well-mannered. Great importance have his actions, behavior. To be known as a cultured and polite person, you need to follow simple rules:
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- Do not raise your voice to the interlocutor, do not interrupt him, listen carefully to everything that he wants to say.
- Give up your seat on public transport to those who need it more.
- In a theater or cinema, when walking to your seat, you need to apologize to people already sitting and move only facing the audience.
- In public places, in no case do not pick your nose, teeth, blow your nose loudly, yawn with your mouth open.
Whatever you do, you must always remember that you do not live alone in the world. You are surrounded by other people, your loved ones, your comrades. You must behave in such a way that it is easy and pleasant for them to live next to you.
This is what true education and true politeness are all about.
A polite person will never turn on the radio or TV at full volume; it can always turn out that behind the wall someone is reading or writing and loud noise will interfere with him.
A polite person would not put a loudspeaker in front of an open window, even on a Sunday morning. What if someone in the house came back from the night shift and is now asleep? Would it be good if you prevent a person from resting?
Even such a seemingly trifle as the habit of slamming a door with all its might or shouting loudly on the stairs speaks of a lack of education. Indeed, in any apartment there may be a sick or hard working person.
well-mannered man shows respect for other people in everything.
If you see, for example, an artist drawing, do not look over your shoulder at his sketchbook or easel. This way you can stop him.
Do not also look at the book your friend is reading or the letter he is writing. It might be embarrassing for him.
But, if you write something yourself, do not cover what you have written with your hand when someone comes up. Do not distrust the approacher, as if he was going to find out your secrets.
Do not try to read a letter that is not addressed to you. It's the same as eavesdropping on someone else's conversation.
But, if you yourself ask someone to deliver your letter, leave the envelope unsealed, otherwise you will show that you do not fully trust the one who fulfills your request.
Cultivate the habit of constantly remembering those around you:
- do not push through the crowd, helping yourself with your elbows;
- cover your mouth with your hand when you cough or sneeze;
- do not forget to say "please" when you ask for something, and thank you for any, the most insignificant service;
- help an elderly person carry a heavy package home;
- take a blind man or an old woman across the street;
- if the company is playing or sharing something, try to come last;
- even in a conversation or a game, always help the weakest, stand up for him.
Let these actions at first glance not be so significant, but it is from such trifles that the character of a person gradually develops.
And someday this character will manifest itself in a big, serious matter.
Aesthetics of behavior
In fact, aesthetics is the science of beauty. When they say "aesthetics of behavior", they emphasize that the behavior should be beautiful. Not only correct, not only reasonable, but also necessarily beautiful.
It is ugly to stand, transferring the weight of the body to one leg, hunching your shoulders. And etiquette considers such a pose indecent.
Pay attention, guys, we use the words all the time: ugly, funny, tasteless, untidy. This is what the behavior of a person of low culture, bad upbringing looks like. An educated person good relationship expresses to people with beautiful forms of behavior: smartness, composure, attractive manners, dignity, calmness. In short, a well-mannered person is handsome.
That is why good breeding, a culture of behavior make our life together comfortable, pleasant, reasonable and beautiful. We believe in this passionately and sincerely. Then everyone around us: parents, comrades, educators, teachers and even strangers will be fine with us. And we will be well and joyfully among the people. And without this, perhaps, happiness does not exist.
From small to big
Many years ago, in 1912, in Atlantic Ocean happened terrible disaster. The huge passenger ship Titanic, which was on its first flight from Europe to America, collided with a large iceberg in the fog, got a hole in it and began to sink.
- Lower the boats! the captain commanded.
But the boats were not enough. They were only enough for half of the passengers.
- Women and children - to the gangplank, men - put on life belts! came the second command.
The men silently moved away from the side. The ship was slowly sinking into the dark, cold water. One after another, boats with women and children rolled away from the sinking ship. Here the landing in the last boat began.
And suddenly, screaming and howling, a fat man rushed to the gangplank, his face contorted with animal fear. Pushing women aside, pushing away girls who were holding their little brothers by the hand, he thrust wads of money into the sailors and tried to jump into the crowded boat.
There was a soft dry click. It was the captain who fired the pistol.
The coward fell on deck dead. But no one looked back in his direction.
Surrounding the captain's bridge, the men stood calmly...
This incident involuntarily comes to mind when you see how a healthy, strong boy is in a hurry to take a vacant seat in a train car, ahead of a tired woman with a heavy bag or an old man leaning on a stick.
What would he do if it was not a place to sit, but a place in the last boat? Would he have had the courage, pride and nobility to refuse salvation in favor of the weakest?
I am afraid it is not. After all, the big always grows out of the small. As the Chinese say, "The longest journey begins with the first small step."
You are taking your first steps in life. The path you take in your life depends on what these first steps will be.
Mother's smile
The one who from childhood did not know how to be a good son, a tender daughter will never become a great, noble person.
Just think how much you owe your mother!
How many sleepless nights she spent over your bed when you were very small! How many worries she gave you while you grew up! And now, probably, you cost her a lot of work. After all, she is ready to sacrifice everything, just to make you feel good.
Do you always appreciate her love for you?
Remember how many unnecessary worries you cause her when, having gone out late, you do not come home at the promised time! If you could see what anxiety her eyes fill then, how wary she listens to every step on the stairs, you would always try to return on time or be sure to warn her of your being late.
Isn't all her love for you worth that little attention?
You sleep peacefully, and she sits bent over with a needle until late at night and darns your socks and tights, or washes your shirts, or irons your suit.
Don't you want to do something for her too, to answer this concern?
Start small. When walking down the street with her, do not let her carry a heavy bag, but carry her purchases yourself. When she comes home, help her undress, bring slippers. If she drops the scissors, thimble, handkerchief - pick it up and give it.
Try to help her with the housework more often than anything: help sweep the rooms, wipe the dust. Yes, and do not litter yourself in vain, so as not to deliver her unnecessary cleaning.
All this will seem small to you. But you have no idea how great a joy it will be for her any manifestation of attention on your part. How proud she will be that she has such an attentive son, such a caring daughter!
under your protection
Have you noticed that when a man walks down the street next to a woman, he usually keeps to her left? This custom also has its own history.
Even relatively not so long ago, only two or three hundred years ago, men did not leave the house without weapons. Each had a rapier, sword or dagger hanging on his left side. And officials, even before the end of the last century, were required to wear a sword with their uniform.
In order for the weapon dangling while walking not to hit the legs of the companion, the gentleman tried to walk to the left of the lady. Gradually it became a custom.
Now only the military carry weapons, and even then not always. And yet it’s more correct for the boy to go to the left of the girl, because our people disperse to the right, and it’s better to let the oncoming one inadvertently hit you with his shoulder, and not your companion.
Only the military, when they are in uniform, are not subject to this rule today. In order, without delay, to give a military greeting to the oncoming military and not to hurt a companion with their elbow, they must have right hand free. Therefore, they always go not to the left, but to the right.
Lesson 2 "Rules of a polite person"
Target: To develop in children the ability to treat each other and those around them politely.
Tasks:
1. Teach children to use various verbal forms of politeness;
2. Instill ethical behavior
Introduction
Politeness- the ability to behave in such a way that others would be pleased with you. Good manners are those who embarrass the least number of people.
Two such different words and such relatives. Why do you think?
T: Kindness and politeness should be learned from childhood. Politeness and kindness please people and make them cheerful, resistant to failure, happy. And therefore, it is no coincidence that the topic of our lesson sounds like this ...
What is politeness?
(These are words, deeds, and external manifestations that characterize a good attitude towards people.
U: A person's upbringing characterizes certain signs of politeness, which are not limited to everyday polite words. The concept of politeness is deeper.
Until the 16th century, “vezha” meant “expert”, one who knows the rules of decency, the generally accepted forms of expressing a good attitude towards people.
Good manners is manifested, first of all, in the polite behavior of a person. The manifestation of politeness is not only words, but also the behavior of a person as a whole, when he is guided by the desire to show respect and kindness to a person, to be tactful and attentive to him.
W: In order to become polite, you should use “magic” words as often as possible, from which it becomes joyful, warmer, brighter in the heart of other people.
W: So first rule of courtesy – it is important to remember the main polite words. Now I'll see if you know them.
Even ice blocks melt
From the word warm ... (Thank you).
When we are scolded for pranks,
We're talking... (forgive me please).
Green old stump
When he hears... (Good afternoon).
If you can't eat anymore
Let's tell mom... (Thank you).
Both France and Denmark
Saying goodbye... (goodbye).
The boy is polite and developed,
He says when he meets... (hello).
2. Poem O. Driz "Kind words"
Kind words are not laziness
Repeat to me three times a day.
Just go out the gate
Everyone going to work
Blacksmith, weaver, doctor,
"Good morning!" I shout.
“Good afternoon!” I shout after.
Everyone going to lunch.
“Good evening!” - so I meet everyone hurrying home for tea.
W: Guys, why are polite words also called “magic”? What "magic" words do you know? (Children call) Listen poems about these words.
Good afternoon
Good afternoon! - you were told.
Good afternoon! - you answered.
How two strings were tied - Warmth and kindness.
Bon Voyage. _____________________
They wish us: "Good luck!"
It will be easier to drive and walk.
Will lead, of course, a good way
Something good too.
Hello. _____________________
Hello! - you tell the person.
Hello! he smiles back.
And probably won't go to the pharmacy
And will be healthy for many years.
Thank you. _________________
Why do we say "thank you"?
For everything they do for us.
And we couldn't remember
Who was told how many times?
Sorry. _______________
I'm sorry, I won't
Accidentally breaking dishes
And interrupt adults
And what he promised to forget.
But if I forget
I'm sorry, I won't do it again.
You are welcome. _____________
Cancel, or something, the word "please" - We repeat it every minute.
No, perhaps that without "please»
We become uncomfortable.
W: You know the main polite words. But why does it happen that people know these polite words, but they do not always pronounce them and thereby upset those around them, friends?
1. And what a word!
Very expensive!
He said about his granddaughter:
What an annoyance -
I gave her a briefcase
I see - very happy!
But you can't be silent like a fish,
Well, I would say thank you.
2. Uncle Sasha is upset,
Here's what he said...
Nastya is a nice girl,
Nastya goes to 1st grade
But ... a long time ago from Nastya
I don't hear the word hello
3. And what is the word -
Very expensive!
I met Vitya, a neighbor ...
The meeting was sad.
On me he is like a torpedo,
Came in from around the corner!
But imagine! - in vain from Viti
I was waiting for the word sorry
W: You need to remember and second rule of courtesy - it is necessary to find the right words in time and use them, that is, to know to whom, when and what to say.
Tell me, is Vitya polite or not?
1. Vitya offended the kid,
But in front of the school in the ranks
Vitya asks:
“Sorry, I admit my mistake.
2. The teacher came to the lesson,
Put a magazine on the table
Next is Vitya:
- Sorry, I'm a little late.
3. - Tikhomirov, show me
Us on the map the city of Pskov
- Sorry, -
Vitya whispers, -
I'm not ready for the lesson.
4. The argument has been going on in the classroom for a long time,
Vitya is polite or not
Understand this controversy
And send us an answer.
W: What answer can be given? (You can’t cover up bad deeds with polite words.)
- And what you need to do, Samuil Marshak's poem "If you are polite" will tell you.
1.If you
Polite
And to conscience
Don't be deaf
You are the place
without protest
give way
Old woman.
2.If you
Polite
In the soul, not for the mind
To the trolleybus
You will help
Climb
Disabled.
3.And if you
Polite
That, sitting in the classroom,
You won't
With a friend
To crackle like two magpies.
4. And if you
Polite
help
you mom
And offer her help, Without asking - that is, by himself.
5.And if you
Polite
That in a conversation with my aunt,
And with grandfather
And with grandma
You won't beat them.
6. And if you
Polite -
For those who are weaker
You will be the protector
Do not be shy before the strong.
W: Thus, we have come to third rule of courtesy – it is important not only to know the rules of politeness, but also to follow them.
Let's play game number 1 "Polite - impolite ". (Hand up - politely!)
– Say hello when you meet...
- Push, but do not apologize ...
- Interrupt during conversation...
- Be able to observe silence in the lesson ...
- Be able to listen to a friend.
Let the girls go ahead...
- Say, leaving the class home "Goodbye"
- To talk loudly...
Help pick up a fallen item...
- To call a neighbor an insulting word ...
- Say in the dining room: "Bon appetit."
At ; Not only words but deeds must be good .
Let's solve the problem together:
one). Two passers-by were walking down the street. One is 62 years old and the other is 8 years old. The first one had several items in his hands: 1 briefcase, 3 books and 1 large bundle. One of the books fell.
A book fell from you, - the boy shouted, catching up with a passerby.
Is it, he wondered.
Of course, - the boy explained, - you had 5 things, and left 4.
I see that you know subtraction and addition well, - said the passer-by, hardly picking up the fallen book, - however, there are rules that you have not yet mastered.
What are these rules? What was the boy supposed to do?
At : Each person should cultivate the habit of taking care of people, striving to bring them joy, create a good mood, be responsive, attentive.
1) Game number 2 "Polite or impolite."
1. Mom sent you to a neighbor to borrow flour. How will you do it?
You want to invite your comrades to a birthday party. How will you do it?
You came to the store to buy notebooks. How do you contact the seller?
3. Your comrades invited you to the cinema, but you can't go with them because you didn't. homework. How will you respond to their offer?
Teacher : Polite people rules.
Each group will have their own situation to discuss and answer the following questions:
1. Whose behavior did you approve of?
2. Who are you judging? Why?
3. What would you do in this situation?
4. What rule of a polite person can you imagine?
Analysis of the situation
Situation 1
The bell rang for recess and Yura flew out of the classroom like a bullet. He wanted to buy a pie in the cafeteria and hurried there, but so far there was not a big queue. He rushed along the corridor, pushing the children with his hands. At that moment the teacher Maria Petrovna appeared at the end of the corridor. Yura braked sharply and sedately walked towards him. "Hello, Maria Petrovna!" Yura greeted politely. Maria Petrovna smiled and nodded her head at him. As soon as the teacher entered the teachers' room, Yura rushed headlong down the stairs. He hooked someone with his elbow, but did not even turn around. He had no time - and so he had to linger a little.
What can you say about the boy?
Why did the teacher smile at Yura?
Was Yura really polite?
Have you met boys like this?
Or maybe someone saw himself in him?
Situation 2.
After work, my mother cooked dinner, washed the dishes and went to do the laundry. Dad went to the garden to water the cucumbers. And Petya sat comfortably on the sofa and began to watch his favorite program “In the Animal World”.
RULE 1
A Polite Person constantly thinks about the people around him.
Situation 2.
Marina was given a large set of felt-tip pens for her birthday. The next day, she proudly showed her gift to the girls at school. “I won’t give them to anyone while they are new,” she told her friends.
RULE 2
Be polite to your comrades.
Situation 4.
Kolya, running into the classroom, shouted:
Hello Grey!
I now, with a briefcase, hit the fat Svetka. It was funny when she fell into a puddle!
RULE 3
A polite person will not cause trouble to another person, will not offend him with an insulting nickname.
Situation 5.
Once Vova went to the theater. In the tram, he sat down near the window and looked at the streets with interest. Suddenly, a woman with a small child entered the tram. Vova looked at them and turned back to the window.
RULE 4
A polite person is attentive to people.
Situation 6.
Natasha has many friends in the class. They often meet, walk, play, do homework together. Natasha is never bored with her friends.
RULE 5
A polite person does not quarrel with friends, works and plays together.
What other rules of polite people can you name?
Proverbs and sayings about kindness and politeness.
In a good hour to say, in a bad hour to remain silent.
If you wish well, do well.
Good glory lies, and the bad one runs.
A good quarrel is better than a bad agreement.
Good and good in a dream.
A good deed does not sink in water. kind word- it's a good thing.
A kind word and a cat is pleased.
Kindness without reason is empty.
From polite words, the tongue will not wither.
Good to live well.
What do proverbs teach?
Proverbs teach:
Praise for the good and not always highlight people's shortcomings
joke kindly
Don't be curious
Listen carefully and don't be intrusive
Respect the other person's opinion
Do not rush to blame a person for something until you figure out the reasons
Take responsibility for your words
Outcome lesson:
At : You guys should all be friends. When you finish school, you will become workers, doctors, builders, captains ... There are hundreds of professions, among them each of you will choose the one that will be the most interesting for you. But, first of all, you must grow up real, good people: kind, brave, polite. And this needs to be learned.
So what is politeness?
(Words open:respectfulness, attentiveness, caring, decency, tact, goodwill.
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Long live kindness, respect and sensitivity to each other!
☁HOW TO BECOME POLITE. Simple Rules courtesy☁ Politeness is not only observance of the rules of behavior established by society. To be polite is to show a sense of tact, to have respect and delicacy towards other people, to be able to take into account their interests and needs. To become polite, you must follow the basic rules of politeness: Treat people the way you want them to treat you, with due attention and respect. Put yourself in the other person's shoes and see what effect your words have. At the same time, do not forget about yourself, do not humiliate yourself: politeness must be shown with dignity. - Always keep your word, keep your promises, despite the obstacles that have arisen in front of you. Know how to listen and hear: respect the opinions of other people, even if it differs from yours. In a dispute, do not impose your point of view, be able to stop in time. - Many questions such as personal life, nationality, religion, can put you and your interlocutors in an awkward position. Avoid criticism in conversation, both in relation to the interlocutor and in relation to other people. Learn to admit your mistakes. - Remember, the “magic” words (“thank you”, “please”, “sorry”) are still relevant in our technological world, use them more often in communication with your family and with strangers, and you will notice how the attitude towards you will change. - Avoid rude, vulgar words, exclude sharp, accusatory notes from your behavior. Do not shout, speak softly, but at the same time confidently. This applies to both relationships with outside world, and in the family - be polite and attentive with your relatives. - Observe the rules of conduct on the street, in public places, table etiquette. Be hospitable and friendly. In public transport, give way to older people, pregnant women, women with children. Skip them forward, holding the door when you enter the room. - Do not go to visit empty-handed, and also without an invitation or warning. Do not stay longer than expected, and when you say goodbye, do not forget to thank the host for the warm welcome. - Do not be rude while driving, let cars off the secondary road, do not use the signal without a good reason, apologize and thank you, take one place in the parking lot, do not chase the "irritant" ... - this will save your nerves and good mood to others. Always smile! Your smile will help you easily get out of even the most awkward situation. Follow these rules every day until they become a habit, and then you can proudly consider yourself a polite person!
Etiquette is a word of French origin, meaning demeanor, rules of politeness, good breeding, courtesy that must be observed in society, at work, at school, university, at the table and even on the street.
The rules of etiquette are unwritten, binding, that is, it is a demeanor adopted "by default" and observed by people as a kind of standard that is not subject to discussion. An educated person should not only know and adhere to the norms of etiquette, but also understand their significance for life and society. After all, good manners are a reflection of the inner world of a person, an indicator of his intellectual level and moral principles. At more possibilities to develop, establish contacts, create good relationships with other people and, therefore, to achieve their goals.
Courtesy from the cradle
Politeness is always and everywhere highly valued. in big cities and major cities politeness turns into a rare and valuable gift, not available to everyone. Rudeness and bad manners are becoming the norm, and this does not surprise anyone. Therefore, it is very important to cultivate the seeds of etiquette in the heart of a child from an early age, along with the first word and deed. Very often, parents, not knowing, adopt the experience of their friends or the older generation. This is not entirely correct.
Every person is different, including your child. He will not understand the authoritarian and demanding attitude towards himself. Adults need to stock up on patience and endurance in order to instill politeness and courtesy in their child. In no case do not force or put pressure on the child. Ask, be polite, and the child will gladly fulfill all your requests. Repeat when talking to him as often as possible magic words- "thank you" and "please". But the rules of politeness for children are not limited to these words. Gradually teach him to say hello, say goodbye, apologize. Encourage him to read, followed by a discussion of the actions of the characters in the book. Explain how to behave with people, and how not to. And most importantly - always and everywhere be polite yourself. After all, a child copies the behavior of his parents and, seeing an example of etiquette before his eyes, he will try to follow it.
Etiquette from the school bench
Having received the basic concepts of good and evil, the child moves to the next level - school, where throughout educational process he is taught the basic rules of etiquette.
As a second home, the school sets itself the same good goals as parents. However, the rules of courtesy at school should not consist only of moralizing lectures and instructive conversations.
For a deep and detailed mastery of all the canons of etiquette, teachers should conduct classes, dedicated to the lessons and courtesy, in the form:
- seminars and trainings, where conversations are held on the principle of "answer-question", various situations are discussed, lines of behavior are played, situations are modeled;
- games in which participants are divided into several groups and play out life situations related to the norms of etiquette.
Such original methods, as a rule, are effective and efficient, they help to identify the level of politeness of each student, teach children mutual understanding, norms of behavior in a particular situation. Schoolchildren easily and imperceptibly learn the rules of courtesy, examples given by senior mentors, and also become more open and sociable.
You have to say goodbye
Correct and skillful greeting is one of the immutable norms of etiquette. It is necessary to greet people with a friendly, open smile. The rules of courtesy when meeting people are as follows: try to look them straight in the eye, speak clearly and clearly, while the tone of address should be soft and courteous. The greeting is usually accompanied by the words: “Hello” (appeal to friends and closest acquaintances), “Hello” (universal appeal), “Good morning (afternoon, evening)” (depending on the time of day).
What Not to Do
The rules of etiquette have their own "veto", that is, prohibited actions that can expose you
- You should not address a person with the exclamation "Hello!", "Hey, you!"
- Seeing a friend, you should not desperately make your way to him through the whole room, causing inconvenience to the rest of those present.
- When meeting acquaintances in a theater or restaurant, you should nod slightly in greeting, and not shout at the whole neighborhood.
- Having met a friend on the street, do not delay him for a long time, it is better to arrange the next meeting or a phone call.
- It is not recommended to slap an unfamiliar person on the shoulder when greeting him.
Who greets whom
Who should say hello first? The basic rules of politeness in this case are as follows. Hello first:
- a man with a woman;
- subordinate with boss:
- junior (by age, rank, position) with senior;
- entered the room;
- walking with standing.
In any case, polite and well-mannered people are the first to greet.
Appeal as a formula of etiquette
The rules of politeness also affected the forms of addressing people to each other. There are three forms of appeal:
There are no clear rules on how to switch from “you” to “you”, this is established by the interlocutors themselves, or is present in the form of an appeal by ill-mannered people who are used to saying “you” to everyone indiscriminately.
Table etiquette rules
The rules have been in place for many years and centuries. They are the same for everyone and everyone, be it a builder or a president.
The first and immutable rule is that you can not place and put your elbows on the table. It is forbidden to slurp and talk with your mouth full, especially on a romantic date.
You should sit straight, not leaning on the table or chair of the guest sitting next to you. It is considered indecent to drum your fingers on the table, gesticulate desperately, throw up a napkin, cutlery, take food from someone else's plate, and talk loudly.
The rules of courtesy and etiquette that should be observed at the table also prohibit blowing on hot food, bending over the table, talking on the phone, singing, whistling, makeup and powdering. A man pays attention to a woman sitting to his right: he entertains her with conversations, puts snacks on her plate, pours drinks.
General rules of courtesy
In addition to the generally accepted norms of etiquette regarding greetings, address, cultural rules
at the table, there is a general rule of courtesy, the observance of which speaks of you as a well-mannered person who monitors his manners and behavior.
- Do not fuss, do everything calmly and measuredly.
- Try to speak quietly, clearly, clearly, without mumbling, obscene expressions and abuse.
- It is not recommended to itch in public, pick your nose and paint your lips.
- Control emotions, be cool, dressing words in graceful forms and expressions.
- Do not laugh too loudly and following people passing by.
- Don't yawn with your mouth wide open.
- Keep your promises.
- Say sorry, say hello, use "thank you" and "please".
- Watch your appearance.
- Do not discuss people in their absence.
- Address strangers in a polite and courteous manner.
Smile is the main rule of etiquette
A smile is a powerful weapon of any person that can change everything and everyone. It's like a ray of sunshine in cloudy weather, a drop of water in the desert, a piece of warmth in cold weather. Her Majesty "Courtesy", rules of conduct and etiquette - all these norms come down to one, the simplest advice - smile. A smile is not only a tribute to politeness, it is a lever of happiness, a recipe for success and good mood.
One smile can soften the heart, attract attention, defuse the situation. In many businesses, smiling is a part of the job, and for good reason: it contributes to a great workflow. Smile and you will gain a reputation as a well-mannered and cultured person!
The rules of courtesy may vary by nationality, but come down to one thing: excellent manners, excellent education will always be "in fashion", and no one can refuse or cancel them.
