The worst qualities of a man, or why shoes are better than men. Bad qualities of a guy. Bad habits - no

We will not consider now men who are already married or alcoholics and drug addicts. We will talk about the qualities of character that usually appear before the wedding ... but to a lesser extent and do not cause any special problems in life. But in marriage, they become aggravated and take forms that are ugly and incompatible with normal life.

1. Man "narcissus"

This is a man who loves himself and envies himself. A man who imagines himself in all respects, who believes that he is the center of the world, and everything else is around him and for him, is unlikely to become a support and hope for a woman. He is not able to take care of someone and reckon with someone. He will always underestimate his lady, being sure that he deserves the best and this best will come to him, one has only to wink. He will behave as if he is doing a favor to the whole world that lives in him, and the world should be immensely happy about this. "Narcissus" is able to love only one person in life - himself, and it does not matter at all whether he has any virtues or not. I don’t know if it’s even possible to build a relationship with such a person.

2. The man is pathologically ambitious

The expression "pathologically" distinguishes a person who is normally ambitious from one who has morbid ambition. A woman, like a car, a house, work, children, a dog, he needs only for a certain status and must certainly be better than everyone else. He will not tolerate any shortcomings from his wife and will be ashamed of his own children if they do not turn out to be brilliant, and he will shoot the dog or sell it if he loses at the exhibition.

No woman can endure life with such a man. He is intolerant, rude, demanding, he can even use physical force to make a woman and children obedient. His family is far from the first place in importance. Career, social circle, “useful” connections, influential acquaintances are more important. He will never satisfy his ambitions, and therefore, he will never "calm down."

3. Male tyrant

At first glance, he can pass for a "real man". But in fact, he is able to turn the life of any person next to him into constant torment, especially if it is his wife. But sometimes a woman blinded by love cannot see the tyrant in a man or mistakenly hopes that he will change, and therefore starts a close relationship with him. And then he lives in constant tension and fear. But even more afraid to leave. And the male tyrant entangles his victim with nets and, let alone let go, does not even allow him to move freely.

Tyranny is a way of self-affirmation, in this way a person tries to overcome his inferiority complex, to prove to everyone, and above all to himself, that he is worth something in this life. Depending on how strong a personality the tyrant is, one keeps the country in fear and tries to conquer the whole world, while the other is content with making the lives of people close to him hellish. There is no point in hoping for a fix. He does not know how to live differently.

4. Jealous man

Jealousy within reasonable limits is characteristic of all men, but when it goes beyond the reasonable, the life of his woman turns into hard labor. The paranoid roar is another type of man to stay away from. Everything seems to him a betrayal, every detail in behavior, every gesture, every word, he can interpret in favor of his suspicions. Jealousy is a manifestation of an inferiority complex, a desire to possess property. Even if at first jealousy seems to be a sure sign of a big, deep feeling, it has nothing to do with love and respect. This is a serious illness. It does not matter at all whether a woman gives a reason for jealousy or not. He himself will find who to be jealous of and why. A woman who has connected her life with a jealous paranoid cannot count on a quiet life and even risks falling into a criminal chronicle.

5. Greedy man

If a man is stingy, then an alliance with him does not bode well. A quality that at first may seem positive, in reality turns out to be a terrible vice. Economy - thrift - greed - avarice. This is a simple chain of transformations. It is impossible to create a normal family with a miser, because this quality is manifested in everything in him. He is as stingy with feelings as he is with money. He is incapable of loving anyone, not even himself. He constantly limits himself and his family. Eating so as not to starve to death, dressing so as not to be naked, no gifts, no leisure. He has no friends and does not communicate with relatives, so he has no one to invite to visit and no one to go to. All this is expressed equally regardless of the size of his income. They say that the miser is sorry even once again to spend his own sperm, so he rarely has sex. From his wife, he will ask for a report for every penny spent, if at all he allows her to touch the money. Attention! Over the years, stinginess worsens.

Oh, they don't like bossy women, oh, they don't like ladies' whims! Why are men themselves ideal or something, do they have any negative qualities? There is, and not a little! So now we will all find out about the shortcomings of men, and let them just try to make claims to us about the chatter on the phone, we will have something to answer.

Disadvantages of men regarding their habits

One of the most important shortcomings of men is their slovenliness. This terrible habit of scattering socks or, even worse, forgetting to change them. Panic fear of daily ablutions and unwillingness to find a common language with a razor. Lack of understanding of the culture of speech about the rules of conduct at the table and so on and so forth. Ladies can name 1001 more habits of their beloved, which irritates them to the point of madness. But think, perhaps everything is not so scary, a man can be explained by the disgusting nature of some of his manners. And do we really need boys that are clean-shaven in all places, whose manicure is better than ours? We'll start to go crazy with envy.

The disadvantages of guys regarding their behavior in society

Let's look at the following typical negative qualities that every second guy suffers.

  1. He loves to brag, “throw show off”, talks a lot, and more often about himself, does not know how (or does not want to) listen to others. It is difficult to deal with such shortcomings of guys, but it is possible. It is often enough to explain to your loved one that he does not look cool, but funny. And almost all guys are afraid to be funny.
  2. Rude manner of communication, sometimes impolite, and has no idea of ​​tact. Well, there are such people, it is most often useless to re-educate - the concepts of norms of behavior are laid down in childhood, if this did not happen, it is difficult to teach an adult good manners. Maybe he will fulfill your requirements, but not for long and without any pleasure. Although, you definitely do not find fault with your chosen one? You do not expect that he will be moved with you by the next fluffy and lisp at every step?
  3. He hates your friends and (oh, horror) does not want to choose for himself those that you would like. So what? Yes, I would like his friends to please you, and yours to be pleasant to him. But this has its own plus - everyone has their own outlet, where you can get distracted and complain about your soul mate, without fear that everything will become known to him through mutual friends.

Negative character traits of men

Bad habits, bad upbringing, these are all things that you can try to fix or eventually find them not so terrible. But the negative qualities relating to the character of a man cannot be altered - who will break the personality - but they are impossible to endure. True, some ladies manage to endure this, but only if such shortcomings of men are outweighed and paid off by their own merits. So what are the flaws of men that make a woman want to run as far as possible?

ARIES.
Domineering, interested only in himself and having an exorbitantly inflated conceit. A typical Aries flies through life at full speed, challenging anyone who crosses his path. If you are not lucky and you fall under his feet, then you will fully experience for yourself what an annoyed Aries is: eyes burn, face is red from screaming, and he can also stomp his feet. Aries often destroys their own happiness, because they never want to realize and check anything. Aries is not able to admit their mistakes.

ARIES MAN
after marriage, he expects you to kiss the ground he makes you crawl on while he declares his need for freedom. He will demand that the house is shiny, the car is washed, and all this before he returns home, having enjoyed another adventure. Undressing on the go and throwing dirty clothes anywhere, he stalks to the bathroom, on the way shouting over his shoulder: “Wife, serve dinner!”. Sitting down at the table, he will expect you to instantly come running from the kitchen, holding a plate with a gourmet dish in one hand, and his favorite soft drink in the other. By the way, it would be better for you to look like you stepped out of the pages of a fashion magazine. This man needs an ideal, not a real woman. He wants her to adore him like a mommy, have the unearthly qualities of a fairy from a fairy tale and a figure like a Playboy beauties.
He considers himself invulnerable, but something always happens to him. He will bring his wife to exhaustion by saving. You will have to learn how to sew, you will never have a housekeeper, and sooner or later you will be faced with the fact that, in his opinion, you eat too much and spend too much money. An Aries man will always start a little war in order to have an excuse, slamming the door, disappear from the house and stagger around no one knows where until dawn. Aries man will accuse you of all mortal sins, and he himself will remain a hero.

ARIES-WOMAN
there is no interest in a conversation if it does not begin with the word "I" and does not end with the word "me". It seems to her that if she is fascinated by herself, then you, of course, should be crazy about her. She is impatient, critical, tends to constantly start and abandon different projects. The Aries woman wants power, position and money as much as possible. If you want to be told what to wear, what to eat, what to think about and constantly reminded that she is faster and smarter than you, then the Aries woman is just what you need. She is jealous, scandalous, able to argue, talk, outsmart and shoot everyone around her.
Aries is the most intolerant sign in the Zodiac. Aries constantly twitches his tongue. Aries considers himself a born leader, so it is useless to try to command him.
TIPS: Aries need to pay more attention and praise them more often. Remember that their pride is just as vulnerable as children's, and act accordingly. Physical exercise will help Aries to let off steam.

TAURUS.
Don't even try to move Taurus. Taurus is a stubborn, edifying, boring curmudgeon who has weight problems. When he becomes enraged, his face darkens, his eyes become bloodshot, and lower jaw albeit a little, but comes forward. Taurus are unable to listen to the opinions of others.

TAURUS MAN
not prone to praise and generous signs of attention. His concept of woman's independence remained at the level of the Middle Ages. He will choose friends for you and criticize your beliefs. Whatever you say, whatever you do, you cannot change it. He is jealous and possessive. Taurus loves to eat well. To have fun for him means to sit in an armchair in front of the TV and watch various programs. If he takes you anywhere, it will be to one of his favorite restaurants, where he will be too busy filling his stomach to have a conversation with you. Taurus is a miser. He may have millions, but you will never see the money, and you can only get it after his death. Taurus will rummage through your papers, poke your nose into your diary. The wife is interested in Taurus only as a housewife. Although he does not like any changes at all, he is quite capable of picking up and throwing you out of the house one day, replacing you with another unfortunate victim.

TAURUS-WOMAN
always plays the role of the victim. And her husband or “beloved” will always be the cause of her failures, in any case, she will always blame her soul mate for any of her own miscalculations. Without the slightest hesitation, she will launch any object at hand at your head. Food for her is almost a sensual pleasure. A couple of years after the wedding, she can get fat. As her weight grows, the desire to maintain order in the house will come to naught. (!!!) However, this will not prevent her from expecting that you will work two jobs to give her a new car, which she has already earned, if only because she has to endure you. She loves to provoke family scandals, issues orders, makes statements, plans the future of each family member and expects blind obedience. It is useless to convince her with the help of logic. She will only put her jaw forward and take a fighting stance, spreading her thick legs wider. She will spend your money faster than you can earn it. She is a martyr. You, children, colleagues are always to blame for her mistakes ...
TIPS: Taurus need to feel secure. When he starts to run amok, do not argue and keep your distance from him.

TWINS
stubborn, cunning, masters of chatting. They glide through life without delving deeply into it. They are too preoccupied with their rebelliousness to listen to a different point of view and consider only their own opinion to be correct.

TWIN MALE
only interested in adding another friend's phone number to his address book and bra size to his ever-growing list of victims. All Gemini men have a fatal weakness for pretty faces. Gemini husband always cheats on his wife. To humiliate a person is the highest pleasure for him. Heartless and calculating, he uses any means to reach a higher position, and without hesitation will make a marriage proposal on the first date if he smells money. Living with a Gemini, you will constantly fight in hysterics, but you will never be bored. True, life with a Gemini reduces the life of a partner by at least twenty years.

TWIN WOMAN
- man of moods. She loves gossip, can't keep secrets. Do not feed the Gemini woman with bread, let me fix something. She will surround you with love and devotion for about five minutes, and then she will begin to correct you for your own good. She will bombard you with advice and examples from her own life. An independent woman, she believes that life is a banquet and whoever did not have time for it, let him remain hungry. Somehow it turns out that it is you who will remain hungry. In no case should she be told about your dark past, because this will certainly become known to everyone. At home, she does not really like to work, and even taking out the trash is a burden to her. And perishing daily tidy and not for her.
TIPS: Gemini needs communication. Praise their ideas. Listen carefully.

CANCER.
Cancer's mood changes hourly. He is able to laugh, sob, pout, joke, attack, whine - all within 24 hours. Figuratively speaking, you can go to bed with one person and wake up with another. Cancers are nervous and shy, they are cowards and touchy. Cancers go through life confident that everyone around them is only doing that they are being offended. That is why, at the first opportunity, they chop off the finger of the offender, even if he does not suspect that he somehow offended Cancer.
In the view of CANCER MAN, being an ideal spouse means tying your wife hand and foot. In bed, he is gentle, but so passive that you will soon get tired of always being on top. Cancer expects you to read his mind, sense his mood, and sort out his messed up feelings, all without having the slightest idea what it was that upset him so much. However, absolutely everything upsets him. You forget to buy toothpaste and he decides that you don't love him anymore. You are going to go to a cafe with your friends in the evening, and he is tormented by doubts about whether you will file for divorce in the morning. The Cancer man is obsessed with personal security, but he expects that in difficult times it is you who will shoulder the entire burden of responsibility for the family, regulate expenses and work two jobs. And he himself will experience the situation so much that he will be covered with acne on nervous grounds, and it will be impossible for him to appear in public with such a face.
Cancer man is absolutely deaf and blind to everything that does not correspond to his narrow, now and then changing views. And you will have to endure his constant tedious criticism and whining, designed to ensure your slavish unconditional devotion.

CANCER WOMAN
will turn the house into a museum containing relics associated with every stage of her life. The walls will be decorated with portraits of relatives and friends. Every Cancer woman has a box where unpaired earrings, seashells, postcards, her child's milk tooth are stored ... She is terribly afraid unforeseen situations. She's so vague that it's often hard to tell if she's listening intently or sleeping with her eyes open. And while she'll profusely apologize for spilling coffee on an autographed poster of your favorite soccer player, you'll never know if it was an accident or if she punished you for coming home too late last month. Your Cancer wife can fool you, making you think that you are the master in the house, but in fact she will control you with the help of well-played performances, various illnesses, allegedly due to nervousness, and constant calls to the ambulance.
TIPS: Cancers need confirmation of your love and fidelity. Hug them when they are sad. Encourage their original sense of humor. Remember. that they are especially cute before the attack.

A LION.
Warm at a distance. Try to get close - and burn to the ground. Favorite pastime: giving orders. Lions are eager to be in the spotlight, domineering fanatics of their own “I”, whose infantilism and selfishness are exceeded only by their desire to dispose of others. Leo (or Lioness) considers himself the center around which everyone must revolve. Of course, they want explicit worship, but they will also be satisfied that you recognize their dominant role in everything. Lions are either loud, unceremonious and cheeky, or crafty quiet with self-respect. But don't confuse calmness with shyness. There are no shy Lions in nature. Try to argue with Leo, and he will roar indignantly and furiously. Win the bet and the Lion will silently stare at you, then retreat into the shadows and start planning his next attack.

LION MAN
gives orders with the air of a general ordering his soldiers, and expects you to rush with all your might to serve him. He demands a reward for coming home tonight, and he demands your respect, whether he deserves it or not. He rarely loses his temper while you call him "master" and bow in respect. But try to challenge his authority and he will growl, start kicking the couch and deliver a couple of ultimatums designed to instill fear in your soul. The Leo will want you to massage his shoulders, admire his excellent physical shape and how strong, beautiful and generally wonderful he is, no matter how old he is and what physical condition he is in. On the other hand, he is able to say without any embarrassment that your hair is badly styled, your butt is too fat, and that you have no more intelligence than a mosquito. The lion is arrogant. He will spend money faster than you can earn it. And by the age of forty, he will resemble an aging teenage bully with a beer belly. His vanity knows no bounds. And of course, he considers himself the most unsurpassed lover in the world, which he loudly declares to everyone around him. In fact, there is nothing to talk about here at all.

LION WOMAN
love to spin fast novels. She loves mirrors and lives to own luxurious things. The peculiarity of Lionesses is that they like to pass off cheap things as branded ones. The same is true for bed scenes. She may play sexy kitty, but she's actually more interested in power than sex. She believes that her admirer should call her daily, send flowers every day and arrange romantic trips at least once a week. If you are not rich, then it will move to someone else. The Leo woman appreciates only her humor and laughs out loud at her own jokes. She is very vain and may not sparkle like a Christmas tree, but she will always demand attention.
TIPS: Usually the Lion roars loudly, but rarely extends its claws. With attention and flattery, you will make your Leo purr with pleasure. You can annoy a Leo by ignoring his roar.

VIRGO.
Favorite pastime: Worry. Part of the body: intestines. You can always identify Virgo by sudden absences to the toilet. Virgo is restless, fussy, petty, prone to endless analysis and subjective assessments of critics and hypocrites. Virgos fall into anxiety at the slightest provocation. Of all the signs, Virgos are the least able to admit their mistakes. Virgos make great bureaucrats because they love to make people stand in line for hours. Virgo is the only sign in the zodiac that looks forward to the moment when you need to brush your teeth.

MAN-VIRGO,
endowed with an innate sense of superiority and a desire to improve everything except his own behavior, ruthless in his nit-picking, like a pit bull clutching his leg, and just as insensitive. Talking to him means pouring out a non-stop stream of critiques on every aspect of your life, from the way you style your hair to the color of your eyes. Many Virgo men are not able to formulate a more or less intelligible statement. Try to argue with Virgo and he will stare at you like you are crazy. He cannot understand how you dare to disagree with him. If you decide to force him to do something, he will immediately lie down, complaining of pain in his stomach. The Virgo man is generally able to simulate anything - from a headache to a heart attack. Of course, he will expect you to rush to his bed with a bowl of broth and spoon-feed him. If you want romantic relationships and tender words, choose any other sign, because with a Virgo man you will not expect anything like that. Even with his legal half, he has sex on a schedule and this time is limited to two days a week for 10 minutes. The Virgo man is nervous, picky and just as selfish as an old maid.
Among WOMEN-VIRGES there are a lot of old maids. She is very critical. The Virgo woman analyzes and criticizes everything from your choice of car to the way you hold your fork. She is a slave to the established order of things. A great weekend, in her understanding, is to force the household to clean the toilet or weed the beds, while she herself will criticize their every move, so that she can redo everything herself. Your home will always look like it's just been raided by pirates, as Virgo is too busy making a to-do list to really get down to business. In a state of anger, she becomes fussy and stubborn. Considering her as an object of love interest, imagine that she is a fortress and you have to besiege her. Be patient as you try to get through to her heart. The Virgo woman is full of passion if you have the patience to get to her through a tight jacket, long nightgown, socks...
TIPS: Virgos need an established order of things. To stay calm, Virgos need to eat plenty of nutritious foods and take massages. You can irritate them by rearranging the socks in the chest of drawers in a different order.

SCALES.
The Libra air causes a constant buzz in your ears. Libra's idea of ​​intelligent discussion is that they are discussing and you are listening and winding up. As a result, it will seem to you that your head was stuck in a beehive. Favorite pastime: Smiling unnaturally. Favorite book: How to Marry Yourself. Body Part: Kidneys full of grit from the crushed teeth they grind at night to compensate for the fake smiles they give out so generously during the day.
In the view of Libra, peace and harmony is your complete agreement with their momentary opinion on this or that matter. Libra views dissent as a personal affront. They will pout even if you just change the radio to another station.

LIBRA MAN
he is quite capable of marrying you on Saturday and having an affair with someone on Sunday. He is fickle, inconsistent and now and then looks to the side. He is absolutely not serious. After two rounds of sex, you are already starting to make plans for the future, but for him, the future extends no further than tomorrow morning, and your name will fade from his memory even before he finishes brushing his magnificent white teeth. He does not want to have a real woman next to him, who will pull him out of the world of dreams, where there are no problems, and drag him into real world, where you have to pay the rent and where the children scream incessantly. He is an unsurpassed demagogue, able to turn any fact upside down, so that no one can figure out where the lie is and where the truth is.

WOMAN-SCALES
Nothing can cheer you up better than a daily run to the shops. She never weighs the pros and cons, except at the moment when she evaluates whether it is time for her to do the next facelift. It's not that she's stupid, no. It's just that common sense rarely manages to break through the thick layer of varnish on her hair to the brain. By the time she's sixty, she'll probably be stuffed head to toe with silicone. The Libra woman craves attention, is usually promiscuous, and doesn't care if you're married, divorced, or engaged, as long as you're attractive. Having met a man, she makes a stand, like a hungry hyena on a lame antelope, and immediately rushes in pursuit. Offer her a cup of coffee and she will conclude that you are going to ask her out. Ask her out on a date and she plans a wedding. Marry her, and she will become a sensitive and tender lover - for about a week. After this period, she will present you with a set of internal rules drawn up by her. For example: you should be ready to help her around the house, under no circumstances should you use her towel or bath, etc. etc. The longer you live together, the longer the list will be, which in the end will include the rules of your behavior in the marital bed. She will cling to you for a very long time after you break up, even if the divorce was her idea. She's not going to ruin your life at all. She just wants to make sure that you are suffering, and all the time she will try to check if she still has her power over you, calling on any, the smallest issue.
TIPS: Libra needs harmony. Praise them often, and the smile will not leave their face. Never force them to make hasty decisions.

SCORPIONS.
Scorpion water is a bottomless ocean poisoned by toxic waste. Try to dive into it without a space suit, and only horns and legs will remain of you. Suspicious hothead. Obsession and obsession - two in one. Favorite book: "How I found mercy - the confession of a maniac." Scorpios are obsessive, secretive and violent subjects who feed their pride on the humiliation of others. His favorite game is "Bonfire of the Inquisition". If you die, then you are innocent. Survive - guilty. Scorpios are not rational, their element is extremes. They see life in black and white and rarely compromise. Their motto is "all or nothing", so they rarely manage to maintain a long-term relationship with someone who refuses to submit to their control. Enter into an argument with Scorpio, and he will begin to whip you with words so that you think: it would be better if he hit me. Prove your point of view, and he will crawl out of his skin to take revenge.
Falling in love with a MALE SCORPIO is like having tender feelings for King Kong. Mr. Scorpio will not reckon with your feelings. He'll just tear them to shreds. He is selfish. It does not matter that you are married to him or are in a serious relationship. According to Scorpio, keeping marital obligations usually means showing up like a bayonet for dinner, and that's it. He will change you to the grave. Scorpio men have two reasons to live in this world. The first is power. The second is control. He would control his own destiny if he could, and some even try. He usually makes a good earner, because his desire for power and control makes him succeed in his chosen profession. It is impossible to follow the change of his whims, and as a proof of love, he will demand almost fanatical devotion from you. He will be jealous of you for every post, and his possessive manners and sarcasm will bring you to the point that you want to put poison in his food. It is impossible to find control over it. Either you endure it, or run away from it without looking back. The Scorpio man binds with the help of threats, frightening in the first place by the fact that he will leave you. But he is also a big liar. The Scorpio man often looks like he just ate a cactus. If you find him with his mistress, he will give such a performance, he will be so humiliated, whining and begging for mercy, that his suffering will seem quite natural to you. Don't be fooled. He is as much a masochist as he is a manipulator. Being drawn into the whirlpool of his charm is the same as disappearing into the Bermuda Triangle. On this journey, you either survive or you don't.
A SCORPIO WOMAN is absolutely self-confident and speaks her mind, casually hurting your pride and shattering your pride in one fell swoop. She is not afraid of anything, questioning everything and will move mountains for a friend or lover. Never betray this woman. She is so perceptive that she is able to instantly characterize each of your friends who have gathered for a party, and tell you exactly which of them can help realize your ambitious plans, and who should be avoided. In fact, she will manage you and your career so skillfully that it will seem to you that you owe your position as chairman of the board to yourself only. The Scorpio woman is just as evasive and manipulative as women of other water signs. In love, she is sensual and dreams of becoming one with a person equal to her. Unfortunately, she never considers any man her equal. She will always try to make a doormat out of you, and when you get your nose in the dirt, she will happily tap dance on your back. The best way not to let your romance with a Scorpio woman dry up is to buy her a new luxurious coat or fur coat every month and never point out her shortcomings.
TIPS: Scorpios need unconditional love. Patience is the key to how to gain their trust. With flattery you will get anything from them.

SAGITTARIUS.
Element - Fire. Sagittarius fire is a bunch of embers. Her warmth seems so gentle and soothing, but try to bask near her and she will shoot sparks at you. Symbol - Sagittarius. Sagittarius is the hunter of the Zodiac. Hunter for cheap goods, sexual predator. Favorite pastime is to rant in front of anyone who wants to listen. Part of the body is the lower back, constantly aching, because Sagittarius is a solid hemorrhoid.
Sagittarius is a loud-mouthed, tactless subject, stomping through life with one foot stuck in a bucket, and always speaking out of place. Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter, and he endows his wards with a restless character and extravagance. All Sagittarians, both men and women, are confident that they know everything in the world, and spend their time trying to educate the rest of humanity. Archers neigh deafeningly or smile cloyingly, but behind this mask of a cheerful jester hides pent-up rage, and what else. It is because of this repressed anger that Sagittarians become the most famous serial killers in the world. Fortunately, the average Sagittarius rarely goes into a frenzy and usually prefers not to use physical force, but to shake his fist through the door and shout vile epithets about your relatives.
The Sagittarius man has a rather peculiar idea of ​​\u200b\u200bthe marriage bond. All his youth and most of his adult life is filled with vigorous activity. He is a wonderful lover, but he does not need you, but some kind of occupation. You will no doubt be won over by his open smile and talent for reciting Shakespeare while unhooking your bra. But soon after the wedding, it turns out that you rather acquired not a husband, but a good friend. He believes that the house is a place where you can look if it's time to change clothes or take a shower. Since Sagittarius is quite capable of living in a cave for months, eating only sausage and contemplating his navel - even if you marry him, you will have the feeling that you are still alone. For him, you will become a girlfriend and get ready for the fact that you will have to spend many lonely nights. He'll be pumping beer with buddies sometimes all night. He is the only guy in the world who was born to be a bachelor. He won't be interested in how you dress, who your friends are, or where you spend your time, unless you tell him yourself.
Sagittarius' favorite game is "How to make things worse." Tell him the drain is clogged and he'll flood the neighbors downstairs because he forgets to turn off the water before removing all the plumbing. Ask him not to go out tonight with friends, but to have dinner at home with his family, and he will scream that you are stifling his need for freedom. Sagittarius, although it resembles a fire-breathing dragon, is more of a cartoon that stomps its paws and flaps its wings, not at all wanting to offend, and the damage from it, frankly, is insignificant.
The Sagittarius woman has an intuitive ability to be in the wrong place, albeit at the right time. She is also prone to chronic tardiness. She also tends to fall frequently, so don't be surprised if she limps at least once a month. Her anger is like a flash of fire that will scorch your eyebrows before you can recoil. Press the button that turns on her volcano, and cups and plates will fly at you with such speed that you just have time to dodge. A Sagittarius woman can speak for an hour in a row in one breath. Her mouth is always open to her ears in a smile. She hates homework, and for the most part your home looks like it's been hit by a hurricane. You should hire a housekeeper, so at least you will be sure that the bathroom will not get moldy, and your children will not drown in the garbage. Among her acquaintances there are many men with whom she will maintain relations even after marriage. And if you arrange scenes of jealousy for her, she will prefer to find someone more accommodating.
Tips: Sagittarians need adventure. Be a good listener. Annoy them by insisting on total silence.

CAPRICORN.
Element - Earth. Favorite pastime is playing the boss. Part of the body is his knees, worn out from the fact that he often stands on them in front of his chest of money. When communicating with Capricorn, you will be dealing with a pompous, domineering careerist, clutching the Civil Code in one hand and a marriage contract in the other. Capricorns do not live - they make a career. These creatures are born with a maniacal desire to be the first in their herd. What they love to do is tell the story of how they struggled to get where they are today. Of course, the fact that they used to live in the slums and now sell roasted sunflower seeds at the train station is irrelevant. Ideas about the pinnacle of success in Capricorn are absolutely subjective. Capricorn is serious and completely devoid of spontaneity.
Living with a Capricorn man is like being tied to a chair and forced to listen to Beethoven's music over and over again. If you meet a Capricorn man, then by your third date he will decide whether he really wants to date you, and whether you want the same thing is absolutely unimportant to him. Capricorn loves applause. As for love, Capricorn's attitude towards his half can be described as follows: "Close your mouth and spread your legs." During courtship, he may forget and squeeze out: “I love you,” but do not expect him to ever say these words again, even if he marries you. He will assume that since he entered into a legal marriage with you, then this in itself is sufficient proof of his feelings. He will make love to you with the same unflappable technicality that he uses in the boardroom or in the pool table. He can be surprisingly passionate if he feels he can lift his inhibitions. He treats people condescendingly and is completely oblivious to anyone's feelings other than his own. He is so mean that he will check the used tube of toothpaste that you are about to throw away. He does not need a wife who can think. He needs a woman with a pleasant appearance, so that she would not be ashamed to walk down the street with her. His motto is "Do as I say, not as I do". He has a nasty way of forcing you to act like a dog he rescued from the flayer, expecting the same kind of loyalty and blind devotion in return. If you manage to hurt his pride, he will sit in the farthest room in the house and indulge in gloomy thoughts.
The Capricorn woman is emotional and unceremonious. Public status is so important to her that she will not plan a vacation until she is sure that the intended vacation spot is precisely a prestigious resort, and not some kind of hole. At secular parties, she is the very charm and sophistication and always shoots her eyes left and right in search of someone rich and famous with whom she could kiss. She spends most of the day pacing around the house blowing kisses to all her dearly loved home furnishings and knick-knacks. She is pretentious. Your Capricorn may not be that ambitious, but she will certainly be prone to embellishing the truth. In love, she is very serious and expects to be sought, asked, begged, etc., and not only during courtship, but also in family life, and after five or six years, such behavior, frankly, becomes somewhat tedious. Sticking a diamond ring under her pillow is a sure way to make her dive into bed.
Tips: Capricorns need financial security. Capricorns value practical discussions more than emotional arguments. Awaken the romantic side of their nature with lyrical music and burning candles.

AQUARIUS.
Element - Air. Aquarian air is saturated with electricity and unpredictability. You know a storm is coming. You are just not sure when it will strike and with what force. Favorite pastime - to catch someone's eye. Part of the body is the ankles, twisted from the fact that their owner turns sharply on his heels all the time, moving away from the room. Aquarius is a straightforward eccentric, pouring a whole bunch of scattered bizarre theories on the head of anyone he manages to pinch in a corner. Bringing confusion and confusion is the true vocation of Volodya. Aquarians are aloof people, not passionate. They chase the future instead of living in the present.
The Aquarius man is capricious, irritable and eccentric. He lives by his thoughts, but is generally harmless. At worst, he's a cold-blooded, joyful monster who will subject you to endless mental torture, and then watch with the dispassion of a psychopath as you fall apart. And his sharp tongue can sting like a snake. Or will he act like a common person, and one fine day will go out for cigarettes and disappear forever. The Aquarius man imagines himself to be the savior of the world, but whether the world wants to be saved does not bother him at all. Aquarius is stubborn and loves to be the center of attention. He is irritable. On particularly eerie days, the moment he appears, dogs begin to bark and cats hiss. Sometimes he tends to drink. Sometimes he seems paranoid. Although he loves to wander around the apartment naked, he prefers a book or an interesting TV program to love. But if you touch the perverse side of his nature, tell him that he is an unsurpassed lover, then a night of innumerable pleasures awaits you. One.
The Aquarius woman always does only what pleases her soul. The Aquarius woman is disobedient, stubborn and intractable. Her independence borders on selfishness, and she can be just plain obnoxious. Angry, she becomes aggressive, showing her anger in a completely childish way. In a fit of indignation, she can stomp her feet, yell at you to get out of the house, and even act outrageously, throwing furniture and dishes around her. She is so unpredictable that every time you kiss her goodbye, you never know who or what will greet you when you get home. She may wear a nose ring or six earrings in one ear. The Aquarius woman is a passionate gossip collector. She has a lot of friends among a wide variety of people of any age, gender and beliefs. The more outlandish you are, the more likely you are to get her attention. In her heart, Madame Aquarius is very partial to money, although her greed is not at all so obvious.
Tips: Aquarians need a lot of space. They love unexpected or unusual gifts.

FISH.
Element - Water. Pisces never know if they have already arrived or are still on the move. A favorite pastime is mixing over-the-counter drugs to experience their hallucinatory effects. The ideal job is a professional funeral mourner. Part of the body - feet. He tramples them to the point of blood, running away from life.
Pisces are dreamers overturned by the realities of life, gullible, disorganized, constantly in a state of confusion and completely helpless. Pisces is ruled by Neptune, the god of illusions, and he endows a person born under this sign with naivety and a tendency to run away from problems. These people go through life armed with narrow views and covering their eyes with blinders. They evaluate each action through the shield of their prejudices, against which any truth is shattered to smithereens. This makes Pisces champions among losers. Pisces stumble more than any other sign. Pisces are persistent people, but looking at things is completely unrealistic. Deprived of ambition, Pisces surrender to their desire to bury their head in the sand.
The Pisces Man is the emotional black hole of the Universe. Throw your heart, soul, car keys into it, and it will all disappear there forever. This guy from an early age knows how to bewitch a woman with meaningless words without the slightest difficulty. He is definitely sensual, sexy and very good in bed. At home, he may be a small Pisces, quietly swimming around with a bottle of beer, but when it comes to love relationships, here he is the real big shark of the Zodiac. He is a born liar and perfects this art until he begins to deceive himself. He will have an affair with every woman. Assuring you of his immortal love, he is able to immediately throw you out of his head and go straight to his favorite bar, where he will immediately take off the first girl that comes across. Don't expect your Pisces partner to be the breadwinner. Some Pisces men start making careers early, but if your boyfriend doesn’t let go of the TV remote by the age of thirty and starts moving, then you can no longer hope for it. You will find yourself in the arms of a foolish husband who believes that the source of wealth is winning the lottery, and the source of culture is television. He is a bore, prone to using formulaic expressions he learned in school. A soap bubble flying at the behest of the wind, the Pisces man himself does not know where he will be taken in the next moment.
The Pisces woman is just as sexually promiscuous as the Pisces man, with the only exception that the Pisces man fools his lovers into believing that he is a prince in the form of a frog, and she convinces herself that any man she fucked , even in bed, even on a desk, is her only true love, even if only for a couple of hours. This woman kissed many toads in search of a true lover. It is a pity that she is looking for him mainly in the swamp. An angry Pisces woman, like a whale, releases a powerful fountain of anger, and then dives into the depths. If you start to put pressure on her, she will get excited and may make a few sarcastic remarks, but most likely she will scream at first, and then fall into a real tantrum. At first, you will bathe in the rays of her generous attention. However, very soon, when she starts grumbling, you will feel a little dumbfounded. Further more. The Pisces Woman brought the art of finding fault to absolute perfection, to the level of torture. She will itch, urge, harass - in a word, do everything to turn you into an ideal spouse. The trouble is, she has no idea what it should be like. The Pisces Woman may seem fragile, helpless, and generally out of this world. However, behind an innocent smile hides a steel backbone. Madame Pisces is her own worst enemy, and she prefers self-pity to a calm discussion of the problem. Start arguing with her, and she will pour such a stream of abominations on you that even a virtuoso of an unprintable word would blush, or she will throw herself face down on the nearest piece of furniture and begin to shake the air with heart-rending sobs. No other woman in the universe will seem to you as devoted, selfless and understanding as the Pisces woman. And no other woman will leave your life with her graceful pink nails grabbing a larger piece of your bleeding heart.
Tips: The fish needs privacy. Remember romance. Praise them more.

Studying the personality of a person, whether it be a woman, a man or a child, one can always reveal a bad inclination to unseemly behavior due, for example, to mistakes in education, psychological trauma. But even bad heredity can be secured. Consider the main negative traits of human character.

Authoritarianism

The desire to dominate everything, ignoring any needs of other people. Explicit or implicit demand for submission and discipline from everyone with whom a person intersects. Someone else's opinion is not taken into account, any disobedience is stopped without an attempt to find a mutually beneficial solution. It is believed that this is a typical negative trait of the Russian character.

Aggressiveness

The desire to conflict with others. In early childhood, this is an obligatory negative character trait of a child who is learning ways to protect his interests. For an aggressive adult, provocative, sometimes deliberately false statements, raised tone, and insults are typical. Sometimes attempts are made to influence the opponent physically.

gambling

A painful desire to achieve the set goal, regardless of the size of the risks, ignoring one's own and others' logical arguments about the excess of spending over the value of the desired result. Often becomes the cause of situations leading to death, loss of health or significant financial losses.

Greed

Pathological desire for personal material gain in any situation. Gaining profit at any cost becomes the only source of positive emotions in life. At the same time, the duration of pleasant sensations from the benefits received is extremely short-lived - due to the uncontrolled constant desire to enrich oneself even more.

apathy

The absence of an emotional reaction to most external stimuli due to a particular temperament or due to the body's defensive reaction to stress. It is one of the reasons for the impossibility of achieving even simple goals due to the inability or unwillingness to concentrate, to make strong-willed efforts.

carelessness

Careless fulfillment of obligations due to unwillingness to act according to the rules already known to all or misunderstanding of the algorithms necessary for the quick and least costly achievement of existing goals. Often this is a typical negative character trait of a woman who has just escaped from excessive parental care.

Indifference

Real or deliberately demonstrated lack of interest in a particular subject, object, event, duties due to innate emotional coldness, experienced severe stress or, instilled from infancy, a sense of superiority over people with a different social status, different faith, nationality, race.

Irresponsibility

Consciously chosen, imposed during upbringing or due to moral immaturity, the position of refusal from a real awareness of the consequences of one's own actions, unwillingness to make decisions that affect one's own and others' quality of life. In difficult everyday situations, active actions are not carried out because of the expectation that the problem will resolve itself.

Facelessness

The absence of individual traits, because of which an individual subject is easily “lost” in the general mass of people like him. In the process of communication, the “gray man” does not arouse sympathy because of his obsession with uninteresting topics, in the team he is uninitiative, boring, afraid of innovations and opposes them in every possible way.

Ruthlessness

Emotional indifference to other people's troubles, inability or unwillingness to sympathize, sympathize with people in particular and living beings in general, experiencing physical or emotional pain. Sometimes it is deliberate inhumanity in actions that cause suffering and even death of the objects chosen as victims.

impudence

Intentional or unconscious violation of the norms, the sequence of actions adopted in a given society in relation to a particular situation. The reason for intentional swagger may be the desire to provoke a conflict or draw attention to one's own person, unconscious - errors in education, emotional immaturity.

talkativeness

A painful need to constantly participate in a dialogue with one or more interlocutors, regardless of the content of the conversation, the degree of enthusiasm for it by other participants, the relevance of the conversation. The main goal of such an interlocutor is not to receive new information, but the role of the narrator when in contact with someone. At the same time, he can disseminate information that others would prefer to keep secret.

Windiness

The inability to keep any promises and take into account the interests of others, the lack of the ability to move for a long time in order to achieve one goal, the desire for a constant change in the circle of friends, partners. The absence of principles and clear behavioral boundaries, the rapid fading of interest in a particular occupation, a person.

lust for power

Passionate desire for control over all and the expectation of unquestioning obedience, the desire for unlimited power, especially over the more educated and skillful. Intoxication with one's own superior position in situations where others are forced to seek help or seek protection, material support.

Suggestibility

In a pathological form, this is a subconscious tendency to perceive behavior imposed from outside without one's own conscious understanding and weighing the results of one's actions performed under the influence of someone else's authority. However, reduced suggestibility can cause learning difficulties.

Vulgarity

The inability to find a balance between originality and vulgarity in communication, when choosing clothes, social guidelines, and so on. For example, during a dialogue, the interlocutor communicates in raised tones, mannerisms, and does not disdain greasy jokes. When choosing an outfit, she prefers catchy things, and the constituent elements often do not fit well with each other.

stupidity

The inability or unwillingness to determine logically correct conclusions even from the simplest everyday problems, the tendency to see a healthy grain in pseudoscientific and populist statements, the inability to subject information from sources that are independently elevated to the status of authoritative ones to a reasonable critical analysis.

Pride

Confidence in the social, moral, mental insignificance of others, the inability to forgive for personal and other people's mistakes, the denial of the possibility of having worthy features in other subjects of society. It develops against the background of distortions made in education, degradation of the personality due to illness, immaturity of the personality, coupled with a high social status.

Coarseness

Unwillingness to adhere to a polite, accepted in a normal society format of communication with interlocutors due to personality deformation due to illness, injury, stress, or the frequent need to take a defensive position when encroaching on territory and rights. Typical manifestations: communication in raised tones, rudeness, obscene language.

Greed, avarice

The desire to minimize costs even to the detriment of health, basic hygiene and common sense. The pathological pursuit of material stability can manifest itself in the form of a refusal to get rid of garbage, rubbish, ignoring reasonable requests loved one about purchasing essentials.

Cruelty

The desire to cause discomfort to living subjects for the sake of personal moral satisfaction. The impact on the victim can be both intangible - in the form of insults and refusal to satisfy some important emotional needs, and physical - through causing pain, torment, encroachment on life.

Forgetfulness

The inability to remember some data necessary in everyday life, a combination of actions to achieve a specific goal, an algorithm for starting or turning off the device. It occurs due to age-related changes in the brain, information overload. May be the result of a stressful situation that you want to forget.

Addiction

The desire to enjoy the performance of actions or the use of a certain substance, even if the source of pleasant emotions is harmful to health, relationships with others, leads to large amounts of money, pushes to a crime because of the desire to achieve a "high", in the absence of legal access to it.

Envy

Inability to enjoy any personal benefits, achievements, qualities. The tendency to constantly compare the values ​​of oneself and others. Moreover, the “crumbs” on the other side always seem larger, tastier and more desirable than their own “placers”. In a pathological form, it deprives of cheerfulness, the ability to soberly assess one's own and other people's merits.

Complexity

Constant belittling in one's own eyes of one's own natural talents, trained abilities, denial of the value of personal developments, inability to force oneself to declare personal achievements in a circle of authoritative persons. It is formed due to excessively strict upbringing, psychological trauma or a disease of the nervous system.

boredom

The habit of teaching everyone and everywhere, repeatedly discussing the same topic, despite the obvious lack of interest in it among people who are trying to be drawn into a dialogue. The reason lies in the pathological love of attention and endless conversations on any topic, even if the instigator of the conversation is a complete layman in the topic under discussion.

Anger

An emotional manifestation of strong dissatisfaction with something, a landmark indicating the presence of conditions that are clearly uncomfortable for a person. In the absence of actions that eliminate the cause of the formation of feelings, over time it can push to commit an offense, so you should not ignore the manifestations of anger.

pampered

It is a bad habit to demand the fulfillment of one's desire as soon as possible, without taking into account the capabilities of the one to whom the claim is made. The refusal to control and restrain one's own needs, to endure the slightest inconvenience, and to personally make emotional and physical efforts to achieve what one wants.

Laziness

Lack of desire to strain for personal needs, a tendency to idle pastime all day long. In behavior, there is a desire to obtain comfort at the expense of the work of others, a deep aversion to useful activity, even in minimal volumes. When applying for a job, this negative character trait for a resume should not be indicated.

deceitfulness

Conscious systematic statement of unreliable information to interlocutors for slanderous purposes, for their own benefit or masking personal mistakes in some activity. The pathological form is inherent in self-doubt individuals who try to impress others with fictional stories about themselves.

Hypocrisy

Feigned assurances of love, sincere admiration and goodwill towards the interlocutor during a conversation with him. The purpose of such behavior is fawning and the desire to flatter for one's own benefit, while hiding the true, perhaps even malicious, moods towards the participant in the dialogue or the object of the conversation.

Flattery

The tendency to excessive constant praise aloud of other people's real and imaginary virtues, virtues, for the sake of their own self-interest. Knowingly negative actions, the actions of an influential person, specially whitewashed by a flatterer and voiced by him as the only correct decision in the situation under consideration, can also turn out to be an object of exaltation.

Curiosity

In a pathological form, this is the desire to find out information of interest, regardless of decency, personal feelings of the interrogated and the situation of the situation in which communication takes place. The cause of unhealthy curiosity is a painful desire to be aware of even those events that are not related to the person showing interest.

Pettiness

The habit of giving great value their insignificant statements and actions. Widespread sticking out of their imaginary achievements, as opposed to really important and heroic deeds surrounding people. Attention to mediocre details at the expense of values, the desire for reporting on household expenses up to "one thousandth".

revenge

The tendency to focus personal attention on all minor and major troubles, worldly conflicts, far-fetched grievances, so that over time, it is imperative to pay handsomely to each of the offenders. At the same time, the duration of the time period from the moment of receiving a real or imaginary insult does not matter.

Impudence

Unceremonious behavior in any situation, the desire to achieve what you want at minimal cost and "over the heads" of others. This behavior is formed when wrong upbringing, because of a difficult childhood, or, conversely, because of being spoiled, which has consolidated the habit of always getting what you want at any cost.

Arrogance

The perception of the majority of others as subjects of a deliberately lower category due to a fictitious difference in social status or a real difference in material, national, racial or other grounds. The reason may be a defensive reaction to the wounding of pride in the past or distortions in education.

Annoyance

Inability or unwillingness to independently deal with emerging problems, have fun or relax. The reason may lie in emotional immaturity, fear of loneliness, the desire to increase self-esteem through active participation in the lives of other people, even if they experience obvious discomfort from this and openly declare it.

narcissism

Unreasonable and unreasonable self-praise, narcissism under any circumstances, the desire to embellish the results of their actions and the actions taken themselves, selfishness, indifference not only to strangers, but also to close people, only interested in personal comfort and benefit.

Negligence

Unwillingness to qualitatively fulfill the obligations taken or assigned, neglect in behavior with people in domestic or professional relations, insufficient attention to entrusted values, inability - due to poor education or personal deformation, to understand the importance of diligence when working on something.

Touchiness

An increased negative reaction to everyday troubles due to hypertrophied egoism. It is because of him that you want the world to spin at your feet, and those around you, forgetting about your own needs, meet your expectations around the clock and all year round: they are polite, generous and caring, striving to provide someone else's comfort.

Limitation

Confidence that the true picture of the world is available only to you, and other explanations of the structure of the universe and the principles of interaction between man and environment- a complete invention of narrow-minded dorks. It arises due to insufficient education, a congenital developmental defect that prevents adequate assimilation of educational information.

Alarmism

The tendency to accept as reality the imaginary catastrophic consequences of any, even minor incidents in one's own life and the world as a whole. It is a manifestation of a bad upbringing by a reinsurer, an overly violent fantasy or a disorder of the nervous system due to stress, illness.

vulgarity

A penchant for frilly outfits, demonstrating real or ostentatious material security through the acquisition of unnecessary luxury items. Or, and sometimes both, passion for sebaceous jokes, obscene anecdotes, often voiced in an absolutely inappropriate environment for the sake of causing a feeling of embarrassment in the majority of listeners.

Irritability

A negative reaction to an irritant, expressed in an excessive manifestation of emotions, the saturation of which does not correspond to the strength of the impact of an unpleasant factor for some reason. The cause of irritability can be external or internal, caused by congestion of the nervous system or exhaustion of the body by a disease.

extravagance

The inability to rationally spend income, including the desire to systematically or constantly make acquisitions for the sake of the process itself, and not for the purpose of exploiting the purchased item or thing. It is based on the desire to feel like a "master of the world", to correspond to the status of a financially secure person.

Jealousy

Showing dissatisfaction or distrust of the subject, which has a certain value for the jealous. It is expressed as a suspicion of infidelity or a greater emotional predisposition to another person (in the place of the accused there may be not only a spouse, but also a mother, sister, friend - the list can be endless).

Samoyedism

The habit of justifiably and unreasonably accusing oneself of a multitude of sins of various magnitudes. For example, in insufficient attention to the performance of duties, although in reality at work or in relationships a person gives all the best. Possible reasons: low self-esteem, actively supporting the interested environment, perfectionism.

self-confidence

Unreasonable exaltation of one's abilities, supposedly allowing one to cope with a certain or any task. It is the cause of bragging and risky acts, often committed with a rejection of the rules of safety, the laws of physics and the arguments of logic. It is based on inexperience, dependence on the desire to live on the verge of a foul.

weak will

Lack of ability to perform an effort of will for the sake of a desired goal or to resist dangerous, illegal temptations, morally degraded individuals. The tendency to submit to other people's decisions, even when they require serious sacrifices. Such a negative character trait of a man can make him the object of ridicule in the team.

Cowardice

The inability to resist the opponent due to insufficiently developed willpower, susceptibility to a phobia. It can be expressed as a flight from the scene of some events due to an imaginary or real danger to one's own health, life, despite the fact that other possible participants in the incident are left in danger.

Vanity

The desire to receive praise for real and imaginary merits. The desire to first of all have a positive image, and not be worthy of compliments. Illegibility in the quality of voiced approvals - flattery is also perceived favorably. Moreover, it is not always possible to distinguish it from sincere statements.

Stubbornness

The desire to act only according to one's own ideas about the correctness of the chosen path, the rejection of authorities, ignoring the well-known rules, purely because of the habit of acting the way one has decided. Lack of ability to be flexible in the face of a conflict of interests, unwillingness or inability to take into account the goals and capabilities of others.

selfishness

Conscious selfishness, the desire to live in comfort, regardless of the possible inconvenience that follows from this for others. Their interests are always exalted above the desires of other people, the opinions of the latter on this and other occasions are never taken into account. All decisions are based solely on self-interest.

The positive and negative qualities of a person are determined by the psychology of the individual and his body constitution. The system of properties and qualities of character is imprinted on the manifestation of personal characteristics.

Important! The static character is determined by the nervous system, and its dynamics - by external factors!

List of negative personality traits

  • The bad qualities of a proud person are manifested in the opinion that the whole world exists for his sake and everything should happen according to his whims and for his pleasure.
  • Lust for power is the tendency of people to thirst, with or without reason, to command, control everything and everyone.
  • Selfishness and vanity is a concentration on one's needs and an excessive love for honors.
  • The bad qualities of a jealous person are a feeling of envy for the apparent or imagined success of an opponent, especially in the field of love for an object.
  • Resentment is an attempt to attract attention and get more than a person is willing to give.
  • Envy is a feeling of annoyance caused by the well-being, success of another person.
  • Vindictiveness is the desire and readiness to respond with evil to the harm done, regardless of the expediency in this.
  • The bad qualities of a cruel person are the desire to cause suffering to any living being.

List of positive personality traits

The formation of a noble and bright image is achieved with the help of a number of individual psychological abilities of the individual:

  • Certainty is the accuracy and clarity of thought, the absence of inconsistency and confusion in the elements of thought and the thoughts themselves.
  • Stress resistance is a good quality of a person that is highly valued due to the ability to withstand strong negative emotional influences that cause high mental tension.
  • Mindfulness is the ability to listen to another person.
  • Compassion is pity and sympathy caused by the misfortune of other people.
  • Respect is the best qualities of a person, which lie in the ability to reckon with the interests of others.
  • Spiritual generosity is the ability to give one's strength, feelings and abilities to others.
  • Industriousness is the readiness to act with full dedication in the performance of any work.
  • Cheerfulness is a good quality of a positive person that helps to find in everyone life situations bright positives.
  • Honor is the inner moral dignity of a person.
  • Gratitude is contentment with one's talents and gifts of nature without taking it for granted.
  • Humility is the good qualities of a non-proud person who is ready to obey someone else's will.

What is most valued in women?

  • Thrift is the ability to wisely dispose of one's property and one's spiritual strength.
  • Meekness is gentleness of character.
  • Tenderness is a manifestation of touching concern for a neighbor.
  • Patience is the best quality of a strong person, which is expressed in moral stability and clarity of mind.

What makes a perfect man?

  • Courage is the ability to act in spite of despair.
  • Wisdom is deep thinking and making decisions based on rich life experience.
  • Reliability is the best quality of a responsible person, which includes firmness in making decisions and keeping promises.

Grouping behavioral factors

  • The relationship of people to others. Sociability, sensitivity, kindness and respect are the main advantages of collectivism. The negative qualities of a person are a closed, callous, rude, deceitful, contemptuous manifestation inherent in individualism.
  • Features that determine the approach to business. Creativity, responsibility and conscientiousness in the performance of tasks, the manifestation of initiative and perseverance are the positive qualities of a person.
    Unacceptable ones are manifested in the form of laziness, inertia and indifference.
  • Attitude towards one's "I". The system of symptom complexes includes self-esteem and critical self-esteem. The positive qualities of a person are modesty and the absence of bad qualities - conceit, arrogance and vanity. Negative indicators include arrogant, touchy, shy and selfish inclinations.
  • attitude towards things. Accuracy or disdain for material goods allow us to make an assessment of the nature of the individual.

Human behavior is dictated by generally accepted standards. From the moment of birth, each individual is assigned positive and negative qualities. Their manifestation is primarily due to education, as well as the ability to cope with critical situations.

Features of the physique and character of the personality

German psychologist Ernst Kretschmer put forward a theory that promotes grouping a list of bad and good sides based on a person's physique:

  1. Asthenics (translated from Greek asthenic means weak) are thin individuals with an oblong face and limbs, poorly developed chest and muscles. They also belong to the group of schizothymic. The negative qualities of a person are manifested by isolation, seriousness, stubbornness, and a low level of adaptation to a new environment. Psychological disorders are accompanied by signs of schizophrenia.
  2. Athletes (wrestlers) are tall people with broad shoulders, powerful chests and a strong skeleton, developed muscle tissues. The positive qualities of a person (iksotimika) are calmness and practicality, restraint. They are not impressionable and do not tolerate change. Mental disorders lead to epilepsy.
  3. Picnics are full-bodied, kind people of medium height and short necks. Cyclothymics are distinguished by a wide face with small features. They are sociable and easily get in touch. The best qualities of a complete person are expressed by increased emotionality and easy adaptation to a new environment. Mental disorders are accompanied by manic depressive states.

Manifestation of negative qualities of people in various situations

Career. On the way to promotion, the best qualities of a good person can be replaced by hypocrisy, lies, vanity, hatred and arrogance.

Extreme situation. A feeling of fear for one's health and life can cause unexpected actions (deceitful, treacherous, cowardly, weak-willed, and others).

Relations. A good example is jealousy, stupidity, greed, grouchiness and slovenliness. The bad qualities of a person are especially noticeable when living together with other people.

The manifestation of positive qualities of people in various situations

Extreme. Courageous, inventive, persistent and serious people enjoy great respect in society. This category includes loyal, reliable and responsive individuals who show their best side in a tense situation.

Significant other. Ideal relationships with loved ones require the cultivation of compliance, attentiveness and kindness. It is important to show tenderness, fidelity and patience - the main positive qualities of a person who is in a pair.

High post. When moving up the career ladder, a special indicator is moral stamina, a conscientious and hardworking attitude. The display of honest, punctual and tactful behavior is the ideal tactic of a conscientious employee.

Society attitude

According to the conventional wisdom, the good qualities of a person always lead to development. Unacceptable actions, on the contrary, are driven into a dead end. Appropriate and dignified behavior is highly valued. Fair, ambitious, and good relations are important indicators. Condemned - betrayal, pettiness, envy and indifference.

The manifestation of dark and light sides is always evaluated together. There are no ideals. With good upbringing and compliance with all the parameters of a benefactor, the presence of bad habits related to negative properties is not excluded. Each individual has the right to independently choose the appropriate model of behavior throughout his life.

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