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Positive and negative qualities of energy centers The first center is fearlessness, understanding of one's cosmic origin, complete calmness and peace regarding all life issues and problems. It is the center of the basic needs of the body: food, shelter,

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As Victor Hugo used to say, a person has as many as three characters: one ascribes to him the environment, the other he ascribes to himself, and the third is real, objective.

There are more than five hundred character traits of a person, and not all of them are unambiguously positive or negative, a lot depends on the context.

Therefore, any person who has collected certain qualities in individual proportions is unique.

The character of a person is a specific combination of personal, ordered psychological traits, features, nuances inherent only to him. It is formed, meanwhile, for a lifetime and manifests itself during labor and social interaction.

Soberly assessing and describing the character of the chosen person is not an easy task. After all, not all of its properties are shown to the environment: some features (good and bad) remain in the shadows. Yes, and to ourselves we seem somewhat different than seen in the mirror.

Is it possible? Yes, there is a version that this is possible. Through long efforts and training, you are able to appropriate the qualities you love, becoming a little better.

The character of a person is manifested in actions, in social behavior. It is visible in the attitude of the individual to work, to things, to other people and in her self-esteem.

In addition, the qualities of character are divided into groups - "volitional", "emotional", "intellectual" and "social".

We are not born with specific traits, but acquire them in the process of upbringing, education, exploration of the environment, and so on. Of course, the genotype also influences the formation of character: the apple often falls very close to the apple tree.

At its core, character is close to temperament, but they are not the same thing.

In order to relatively soberly assess oneself and one's role in society, psychologists advise writing out their positive, neutral and negative traits on a piece of paper and analyze.

Try to do this and you will find examples of character traits below.

Positive character traits (list)

Negative qualities of character (list)

At the same time, some qualities are difficult to attribute to good or bad, and you can’t call them neutral either. So, any mother wants her daughter to be shy, silent and bashful, but is this good for the girl?

Again, a dreamy person can be cute, but completely unlucky due to the fact that he is always in the clouds. An assertive individual looks stubborn for some, unbearable and stubborn for others.

Is it bad to be gambling and carefree? How far has cunning gone from wisdom and resourcefulness? Ambitiousness, ambition, purposefulness lead to success or to loneliness? It will probably depend on the situation and context.

And what to be to you, you decide!

Oh, they don't like bossy women, oh, they don't like ladies' whims! Why are men themselves ideal or something, do they have any negative qualities? There is, and not a little! So now we will all find out about the shortcomings of men, and let them just try to make claims to us about the chatter on the phone, we will have something to answer.

Disadvantages of men regarding their habits

One of the most important shortcomings of men is their slovenliness. This terrible habit of scattering socks or, even worse, forgetting to change them. Panic fear of daily ablutions and unwillingness to find mutual language with a razor. Lack of understanding of the culture of speech about the rules of conduct at the table and so on and so forth. Ladies can name 1001 more habits of their beloved, which irritates them to the point of madness. But think, perhaps everything is not so scary, a man can be explained by the disgusting nature of some of his manners. And do we really need boys that are clean-shaven in all places, whose manicure is better than ours? We'll start to go crazy with envy.

The disadvantages of guys regarding their behavior in society

Let's look at the following typical negative qualities that every second guy suffers from.

1. He loves to brag, “throw show off”, talks a lot, and more often about himself, does not know how (or does not want to) listen to others. It is difficult to deal with such shortcomings of guys, but it is possible. It is often enough to explain to your loved one that he does not look cool, but funny. And almost all guys are afraid to be funny.
2. Rude manner of communication, sometimes impolite, and has no idea of ​​tact. Well, there are such people, it is most often useless to re-educate - the concepts of norms of behavior are laid down in childhood, if this did not happen, it is difficult to teach an adult good manners. Maybe he will fulfill your requirements, but not for long and without any pleasure. Although, you definitely do not find fault with your chosen one? You do not expect that he will be moved with you by the next fluffy and lisp at every step?
3. He hates your friends and (oh, horror) does not want to choose for himself those that you would like. So what? Yes, I would like his friends to please you, and yours to be pleasant to him. But this has its own plus - everyone has their own outlet, where you can get distracted and complain about your soul mate, without fear that everything will become known to him through mutual friends.

Negative character traits of men

Bad habits, bad upbringing, these are all things that you can try to fix or eventually find them not so terrible. But the negative qualities relating to the character of a man cannot be altered - who will break the personality - but they are impossible to endure. True, some ladies manage to endure this, but only if such shortcomings of men are outweighed and paid off by their own merits. So what are the flaws of men that make a woman want to run as far as possible?

If we talk about the most negative qualities of a man in my understanding, then it is worth immediately clarifying that I exclude despotism and drunkenness from the very beginning. That is, a man who is often in a state of a hangover is not an option. Just like I will never let a man hit me, i.e. domestic despot and tyrant are also excluded. But the negative qualities of the male sex do not end there.

Greed


Usually, I try to give a man the right to choose. At least at first. When he invites somewhere, I answer "to your taste." This gives me the opportunity to immediately understand how much he knows women and what he is. Yes, and he is given a chance to prove himself with better side. But does he really need it?

That date was not the first. It was just the first date outside the home. Usually, we met at his house, where he fed me grapes and sang songs with a guitar. He took me with songs at first. But it is not endless to sit and listen to his wonderful singing. I wanted variety. And he, under the pressure of lengthy persuasion, agreed to go to a cafe.

As usual, I said "choose to your taste". But, beforehand, on the way, I told him how I want sweets. And already sitting in a cafe, she hinted, shivering, that she was cold. And here I sit in anticipation of coffee and cake. And he suddenly gives the waitress: "We have two beers and pistachios." I was dumbfounded. He knew perfectly well that I did not drink beer.

To my “delight,” he pursed his lips in puzzlement:
“Well, what about you then? Maybe some tea?"
I nodded.
The waitress, as usual, asked: "Anything else?", to which I wanted to mention the cake, but did not have time.
He preempted my response with his clear "No, nothing." I finished my lone coffee, watching him eat pistachios.

“Well, why didn’t we stay at home? I would make you coffee for free and better, ”he was suddenly indignant,“ and there are still grapes left.

But I didn't want any more grapes. Yes, and we broke up with him not after these gatherings, but literally after a couple of days. When a possible meeting with his friends in a bowling alley, which suddenly loomed on the horizon, was postponed indefinitely, and he sat down at home again.

Lack of initiative


Most modern men are lazy. They are not able to surprise, make a surprise, come up with something romantic. They are simply reluctant. We spoiled them. Why come up with ways to take the fortress, if the fortress was dug out of its own accord?

We met at work. Surprisingly, we not only worked together, but also lived in neighboring houses. Therefore, the first date was marked simply by a walk around the area. Well, I didn't mind getting some air. And going around the courtyard, then around the neighboring one, we went into the entrance. Of course, kisses in the stairwell and romantic conversations under the moonlight reminded me of my school years and my first love.

The next day he walked me home again. The fact is that he constantly worked, aimed at senior employees and was forced to stay late. Our weekends overlapped. And he promised me the next time, during such a coincidence, a walk in the park with his dachshund. And I love taxis.

Only now, the next time, when I was already going for the promised walk, he said that today he just needed to see his brother. And that next weekend we will definitely take a walk in the park with a dachshund.

The week flew by quickly, he finished late as always. And I sat and waited for a walk in the park to break off. And then the weekend came. And what do you think? He suddenly had a business. It was vital for him to see a friend. Allegedly, he had serious problems. I'm already worried.

And when for the third week in a row, walking around the house and standing in the entrance, I felt that I was turning into an overgrown girl, I decided to put the question squarely. Well, am I asking too much? Perhaps he was afraid that there, in the park, I would attack him? I don't know.
But, unfortunately, after my questions, the initiative on his part did not increase.
But we broke up not because of this.




Ownership


Quite natural for a man, isn't it? But in order. Yes, a man has the privilege to claim his rights to a woman when the relationship is already serious and stable. But, my lack of initiative gentleman turned out to be everything else, also a terrible owner.

I decided to visit a friend. It was evening, and we stayed up until 10 o'clock. I was about to leave. When all of a sudden the phone rang. It was he.
"Where are you?" - an outraged question.
“Visiting a friend” - I didn’t lie.
"What the heck? It's already 10pm! My girlfriend should be home at 9,” he stunned me. An angry tirade.
"Are you out of your mind?" was all I could ask.
“Give the phone to your friend. I will come for you now, and so that it is in last time", - finally finished off the voice on the phone.

Of course, I didn't give my friend the phone. I'm not one of those girls. It is still important for me to have my own space and a certain amount of freedom. Especially when you consider that our romance was on the strength of a month. It didn't last longer.

In fourth and fifth place, I would put the lack of a sense of humor and tediousness.

I am sure that if a man is endowed with intelligence, a sense of humor and a sense of proportion, then such unpleasant stories should not happen. Although, for sure, even such unlucky suitors will certainly find their Malvina. Who will give the phone to a friend, and be content with cold coffee and pistachios.
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