In the lives of completely different people, there are situations when it is necessary to talk about another person. How to build a story? How to tell about a person in an interesting and exciting way? But sometimes a "dry" retelling of specific facts is required - for example, when compiling a characterization from a place of work or study, or when compiling a verbal portrait. Now about the different verbal forms of representing a person in detail.

A boring story about a person as about himself

That's how it should be about a particular person. When they ask: well, tell us about kind people - there is nothing better than to make up your story from small stories. Brief verbal sketches from life will help to get an impression of an unknown person, and about a well-known person - to learn more interesting facts. As in any story, there should be a "backbone" of the story - a beginning, middle and end. The content of these main components directly depends on the goal pursued by the narrator, the audience and the semantic load.

For example, when talking about the founder of a perfume company in front of a female audience, it should be borne in mind that the listeners with great interest will catch every word from a person’s life, peppered with intimate details or love-meaning. It should be understood that the success of any story lies precisely in this - in taking into account the interests of the intended audience. Having dealt with a fictional story, it is worth paying attention to another type of verbal representation of a person - a characteristic.

Characteristics of fate

In the characteristic, the main attention is paid to the facts (dates, places of work / study, positions held). In addition, with such a presentation, a qualitative assessment of human activity at a particular place of work / study is necessarily given. For example, a characteristic for an employee of an organization might look like this:

OJSC "Neptunsk", Petrozavodsk

Has been with the organization since 2000.

He showed himself as an executive and responsible employee. Possesses the necessary professionalism and business skills in the industry. Constantly improved his professional level. Sociable and responsive ... ". When compiling a characterization, one should remember that the presentation uses a business style. Having decided on the compilation of a characterization, it is worth considering - what can be said about a person using such a presentation method as a "verbal portrait"?

Portrait in words

The most detailed and clear method of describing a person's appearance is a verbal portrait. As a rule, it is compiled by criminologists when searching for a particular person. This takes into account:

• anatomical characteristics;
• functional signs;
• special signs;
• manners;
• clothes;
• decorations.

Describing each of the characteristics, criminologists with great care highlight all the small details, from the shape of the tip of the nose to the manner of speaking. It is a detailed description of the external features of a person that is the hallmark of a verbal portrait.

It turns out that depending on the needs and different situations, one and the same person can be described in completely different ways. Brightly, colorfully - with the help of an artistic story, in a businesslike way - having made a description. Or, in a verbal portrait, display all external features.

NATA CARLIN

Every person has ever thought about his name. We receive it at birth, and this short and capacious word colors the faceless pronoun “I” with shades of our character, the nuances of life and the consciousness that the name and essence of a person are inseparably linked. You probably noticed that the name you heard evokes certain associations in you. Not knowing the person, but knowing their name, you subconsciously draw an image of someone you have never seen. Subsequently, when you meet, you note those traits of character and appearance that coincided with your assumptions, and those that did not. As a rule, there are more coincidences. This suggests that people with the same names are similar to each other in many ways. What is it? Coincidence or is there really a consistent relationship?

Those who are a little fond of esotericism are well aware that the name carries a hidden meaning, information and secret forces that affect fate, actions and. Therefore, parents choose the name of their baby so carefully.

The fate of a person is dependence on a name

There are three interconnected things that determine the existence of a person:

1. fate;
2. character.

This was stated by our ancestors, and we do not refuse. The very word "fate" comes from the phrase "given name." It comes from the ancient language of the Sumerians. The sorcerers and magicians of Ancient Rome believed that by writing the name of a person upside down and back to front, you can completely.

Such close attention to the name gave rise to superstitions and customs, when people hid the true name from others. They were afraid of spells and conspiracies that could only be performed if the true name of a person was known. At the same time, it was believed that such rituals have a strong negative effect, and spoil a person's life. In ancient Egypt, each person was given a true name, which few people knew, and a "second" name. The second he used to communicate with people, everyone knew him. In Russia, the real name was given at the baptism of the child. His parents kept a secret for a long time to protect the baby from spirits. The same entities, and in the same way, tried to deceive in Azerbaijan.

In the eighties of the last century, American psychiatrists conducted a study that found that people with strange names for the area are prone to more mental disorders than those who have traditional names. Similar complexes develop in childhood. The child has to take a defensive position in order to protect himself from ridicule and mockery of his peers about his name. In parallel, an analysis was made of the performance of children with different names. It turned out that teachers traditionally give high marks to students with certain names, and low marks with another group of names. Girls with beautiful and sonorous names do not have a business streak and do not strive for routine and tedious work, they find themselves in art and show business.

The Englishman T. Weston came up with a definition that the letters of the last third of the alphabet (with which people's names begin) negatively affect their health in the future.

So are names really so closely connected with destinies? What explains the mysterious connection between a human name and its future?

The meaning of the name and character of a person: theories

Social.

Social theory suggests that a person's name is an energy clot that provides information about the carrier. Natalia, Alexander, Magomed, Fatima, Bill, Carolina... The origin and belonging of nationality and religion can be determined by these names. In most cases, the general opinion is correct. But the bearers of these names are different, and their destinies, at times, are very different. However, people with the same names have common ones.

Psychological images of the name are collected and systematized by psychologists and esotericists. The group of people who fit the study parameters is a group of men and women from 18 to 35 years old. The subjects answered questions about names. That is, they were asked to make a psychological portrait of a person with a specific name, but not an acquaintance.

Despite the fact that the people who participated in the test were far from having a psychological education, it was not difficult for them to construct psychological images of people with different names. This once again suggests that the image of a person is associated by those around him with a certain psychotype, endowed only with his characteristic features and characteristics.

emotional.

At an emotional level, a person's name is perceived in terms of what emotions it evokes when it sounds. Some names sound lyrical and soft, they envelop with their rumbling and evoke feelings of bliss and peace. Other names are filled with harsh sounds that make you shrink and go cold inside. This phenomenon is also called "name music". The initial impression of its bearer and the attitude of those around him depends on how the name sounds. At the same time, the character of a person undergoes changes. Seeing in their address, caused by the sounds of the name, people change, becoming tough and uncommunicative.

Sound.

Each word is a complex of corresponding sounds, different in pitch and timbre. The first thing a child hears when adults address him is his name. These sounds are clearly recorded by the human subconscious, programming the future fate. The vibrations caused by the sounds of the name excite the corresponding parts of the cerebral cortex. The formation of a person's character depends on what program is laid down by these impulses. In boys with simple Russian names "Vasya" and "Kolya", completely opposite structures of brain regions are excited. The sound load on brain formations that is different from each other is the determining factor in shaping the character of a person.

Kharkov self-taught inventor found confirmation of the sound theory of the influence of the name on the changes taking place in the environment. He created a device that included a microphone and a membrane with a thin layer of magnetic powder sprinkled on it. Empirically, he found that sound vibrations from the name spoken into the microphone cause the powder to create a specific pattern on the surface of the membrane. Moreover, for each individual name it is the same, but for different names it is different.

Scientists managed to establish such a dependence with the help of mass surveys of people on the street. Only one question was asked - with what color do you associate the Name. The analysis of the answers showed that the dependence is as follows:

• Tatyana - shades of red or close to rich pink;
• Elena - colors close to blue or blue-blue.

These are just two examples of how a person's name can be associated with a color. So, psychologists consider red to be a symbol of danger, tension and anxiety, and blue - calm and relaxation. From this we can conclude that Tatyana is a powerful, unrestrained and rude person, trying to subjugate those around her and achieve obedience from everyone. Elena, for the most part, are gentle, romantic and quiet women. Suppose that the sounds of the name "Tatiana" contain those notes that cause alertness and denial among others, forcing girls from the moment of birth to "take a defensive position." This develops similar character traits in them. The name “Elena”, which evokes positive emotions and peace, on the contrary, evokes a gentle and reverent attitude towards the girl, as a result of which a gentle and sweet creature grows up.

A direct connection between the fate of a person, his character and name has been proven long ago. At the same time, it is impossible to argue that this name can drastically affect changes in a person’s character. It can be assumed that names emphasize (strengthen or weaken) personality traits, making them expressive and clear. Some people have experience with name changes. They claim that after that they experienced dramatic changes in their lives. In their character, qualities were manifested that had previously been in a “dormant”, “sleepy” state. The name does not predetermine the fate and life path of people, it only brings some qualities to the fore, leaving others behind the scenes. You do not need to blame the name given to you at birth for your mistakes and mistakes. The temptation to find the "extreme" is great, but you should not do this.

But this does not mean that a winner will definitely grow out of a baby named Victor. Of great importance is the date of birth of a person, the environment in which he was born, grew up and lives, upbringing and level of education. However, choosing a name for a future person is an important task that all parents face.

March 29, 2014, 17:47

This article will be useful for both men and women! After all, just by looking at the jewelry, you can tell everything about a person!

1. What do gold jewelry say?
2. What can silver jewelry tell about a person?
3. And if jewelry?
4. Special occasion: zodiac jewelry!
5. What does the complete absence of jewelry indicate?
6. And especially about jewelry and men ...

Literally 2 introductory words…

Did you know that jewelry (or lack of it) reflects a person's beliefs, character, and attitudes?

It turns out that you can learn more about a person by jewelry than by his words!

After all, he carefully considers the words (well, at least in most cases). But the choice of jewelry comes unconsciously ...

This is where the whole story is revealed!

So, read carefully! You have a unique opportunity to learn more about yourself and learn to “read” others!

What do gold jewelry say?

A person who prefers gold jewelry is pragmatic¹ and materialistic². He knows the value of himself and money. From any business relationship will seek to obtain benefits at the lowest cost. Accordingly, the more gold jewelry, the more massive they are, the brighter these qualities are manifested.

Speaking of the woman who wears gold...

We can say that it is best to give her gold too. Any other gift must be expensive. He loves luxury perfumes. Well, if you guess with the smell (and this can be done if you pick up perfumes according to the sign of the zodiac), then she will definitely appreciate a person at its true worth).

What can they say about a person?silverdecorations?

For the one who wears silver, spiritual values ​​are much more important than material ones. This is a very sophisticated person who burns with the idea of ​​​​beauty and harmony. Women who love silver jewelry, as a rule, have a well-developed artistic taste, they are aesthetes by nature and strive for beauty.

Beautiful silver jewelry will be a winning gift for such a woman, especially if it is decorated in them. Also, such women adore refined natural perfumes in beautiful bottles. In order not to make a mistake in choosing, you can use the services of an aroma stylist.

How about jewelry?

Jewelry can be classified as jewelry made from a variety of materials (with the exception of precious metals and precious stones). These can be products made of leather, bone, glass, fur, semi-precious stones, wood, etc.

What can jewelry tell about a person?

Much! First of all, the fact that a person has extreme sexuality and magnetism. A woman who loves jewelry craves bright, exciting experiences, tinged with eroticism. In other words, she wants to please and arouse interest in the opposite sex more than others.

What kind of gifts does such a woman prefer?

Fur! In any of its manifestations! Even if the collar or sleeves are trimmed with fur. Well, a fur coat or a handbag with fur will make her heart flutter with delight!

Special occasion: jewelry in the form of signs of the zodiac!

If a person prefers jewelry that reflects his zodiac sign, then you must immediately say that this person is not simple. Such people are reluctant to make contact and let you into the soul. They tend to act on the basis of the principle:

“There are 2 t.z. One is mine, the other is wrong.

You can find an approach to such a person, again, through him. The more you know about the zodiac sign of such a person, the better you understand her aspirations and secret desires. The following information will be especially useful here:

What does the complete absence of jewelry mean?

The hardest case! There is one of two things: either the personality is weak, with low energy (by the way, prone to depression), or, conversely, an extremely active type of personality, which is characterized by constant intense mental work (and hence frequent fatigue and overwork are possible).

How to define one of these two types?

Additional signs will help here: the manner of speaking (quickly - slowly), the look (active, directed at the interlocutor or extinct, lowered), the colors in the clothes (bright, catchy - muffled), motor skills (excessive gesticulation, ardor - the almost complete absence of gesticulation, detachment ).

Common to both types of people who do not wear jewelry will be the desire for relaxation and comfort. The less fuss around, the better.

And especially about jewelry and men ...

A priori, men do not like and do not wear jewelry. But if some jewelry is still available (a ring, a bracelet, a chain), then they give out in their owner the desire to stand out, to assert themselves.

Such a man is not devoid of narcissism and pride. Expects praise, admiration, compliments from others. Accordingly, the more jewelry, the brighter and more massive they are, the stronger these qualities are manifested.

Well, the material from which his jewelry is made will give additional characteristics (as mentioned above).

By the way, do you wear rings? And on what fingers?

Oh, how much that says a lot! You can make a whole diagnosis ... However, I plan in the future, if you are interested. I will judge by the number of likes. So share the information on your social networks.

P.S. Thank you!

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Notes and feature articles for a deeper understanding of the material

¹ Pragmatist - follower, supporter of pragmatism as a philosophical system. In the everyday sense, a pragmatist is a person who builds his own system of actions and views on life in terms of obtaining practically useful results. “What is best for us to believe is true” (Wikipedia).

² A materialist is a person whose interests are directed to the material world, material values ​​and the body. A materialist is convinced of something only on his own experience, when he can feel, touch or perceive something with other senses (from different sources).

You can tell by the face.

His face reading method is based on the facial expressions of such specialists as Paul Ekman, Edward Vincent Jones and Robert Whiteside Robert Whiteside and David Matsumoto.

Stevens believes that facial features can tell a lot about a person because they reflect those aspects with which a person was born and those that appeared during life.

"If you look at someone, you can immediately tell if the person is in shape because their muscles are developed," he explained. "The same can be said for the face, we have 43 facial muscles and the ones we use more often will develop over time."

Here are 7 personality traits that you can learn about by looking at a person's face.

Character by face

1. Confidence- determined by the ratio of the width and length of the face

The psychologist claims that people whose face width is less than 60 percent of the length are cautious by nature, and those whose face width is more than 70 percent of the length are naturally self-confident.

2. Friendliness- determined by the distance from the top of the eyes to the eyebrows compared to the height of the eyes

People with higher eyebrows have more developed muscles that are used to express surprise. Such people prefer personal space.

3. Tolerance- determined by the horizontal distance between the eyes

People who have wide-set eyes are more tolerant of mistakes.

4. Sense of humor- determined by the length of the nasal trough

A longer groove between the nose and upper lip indicates a person with a flat sense of humor and sarcastic, while a shorter groove indicates that the person may take jokes personally.

5. Generosity- determined by the shape and size of the lips

People with a fuller upper lip are generous in their speech, while people with thin lips are often more restrained.

6. View of the world- determined by the size of the crease on the eyelid

People who have a thicker crease tend to be analytical, while those with a thin or no crease tend to be more determined and action-oriented.

7. Magnetism- determined by eye color depth

People with deeper eye color tend to be more charismatic.

Character on a person's face

Here are a few more personality traits that you can tell by looking at your face.

face shape

Round - emotional, sensitive and caring, developed sexual fantasy. If you need a person for a long-term stable relationship, this is the best choice.

· Oval - practical, methodical, hardworking. They are also characterized by narcissism, and they often have problematic relationships.

· Triangular - creative, but with a quick temper.

· Square - smart, prone to analytical thinking, but also aggressive and tend to dominate.

face profile

Bulging (sloping forehead, prominent eyebrows and large nose) - stubborn, demanding and impatient

Concave (protruding forehead, almost flat eyebrows, small and straight or snub nose and protruding chin) - good-natured and patient

Flat - permanent character and balanced state

Character by facial features

Direct - progressive thinkers, but do not have a quick mental reaction. Work hard under pressure and need time to think things through

Sloping - quick thinkers and decision makers, because of which they can often make mistakes

Curved - creative people who do not like restrictions, developed imagination, smart

Brows

Weak or thin eyebrows - indecisive and insecure

Thick eyebrows - assertiveness, strong personality

Conjoined eyebrows - persistent, jealous and possessive by nature, also often introverts

Eyes

Expressive eyes - bright, kind, friendly and sympathetic people

Small shifty eyes - nervous temperament. Small eyes can also indicate a perfectionist and considerate person.

Closely spaced eyes - good concentration

Misaligned eyes - a person can look at things from different points of view

· Widely spaced eyes - a broad outlook, tolerant person.

A straight, fleshy nose is considered the ideal nose shape, indicating warmth, warmth, and a deep sense of empathy. These people set high standards for themselves.

Big nose - prone to outbursts of rage

Eagle nose - strong-willed, independent people

Upturned nose - likes to communicate with people

Small mouth - femininity, shyness

Large mouth - talkativeness, generosity

Thin upper and full lower lip - a person rarely reciprocates in a relationship.

Full upper and thin lower lip - a generous person

Full round lips - a caring and sensitive person

Small lips - self-centeredness

Raised corners of the lips - optimism

Lowered corners of the lips - a person who is difficult to please

The chin

Pronounced chin - a person with a strong value system, hardy and stubborn

Weak chin - weak will, easily influenced by others and living by the standards set by others

Wide chin - people who love to compete, do not like to lose

wrinkles

Wrinkles around the eyes - a generous, open person

Vertical wrinkles between the eyebrows - logical thinking, diligence and determination

Wrinkles from nose to mouth - people on the right path in life

It is known that his gestures can tell a lot about a person. But even without knowing the "sign language" you can characterize different people by their appearance.

Neck

Features of the structure of the neck, shoulders, hips and legs can tell about the character and passions of a person. For example, a short neck is a clear sign of stubbornness and shortsightedness, while a long one is usually found in melancholics. The “bull” neck testifies to the fearlessness of a person. Well, the owner of a thin neck can be considered a romantic and timid person.

Shoulders

When communicating, be sure to pay attention to the shoulders of the interlocutor. If they are narrow, the person is clearly shy and prone to self-criticism. And broad shoulders will serve as evidence that he is extremely brave. Broad-shouldered people often inspire confidence and know how to win over.

Hips

Massive and wide hips usually betray an uncompromising person. Rounded hips have soft and limp personalities. But narrow and strong hips are a sign of a strong character and endurance. By the way, slender legs “talk” about the ability to achieve your goals.

Forehead

Of course, people most often pay attention to each other's faces. Therefore, it is very important to know how to determine the character of a person by the features of his face. So, a smart person is distinguished by a high and slightly convex forehead. But the owners of a narrow forehead are characterized by excessive irascibility. High bald patches are often found in people with some kind of strong motivation. If the forehead of the interlocutor has a square shape, you are dealing with a pathologically honest person.

Brows

About the character of a person can "tell" and his eyebrows. Thin eyebrows betray arrogant and ambitious people. Jointed eyebrows are often a sign of cruelty and rudeness, and wide ones are a clear sign of sincerity and simplicity.

Eyes

Deep-set eyes characterize people as greedy and envious. Wide-open eyes usually have real dreamers. And the owners of small eyes are distinguished by eloquence and curiosity. By the way, narrow eyes can betray a cruel person, a usurper.

Nose

Some character traits can also be identified by the shape of the nose. So, a sharp and long nose indicates the severity and irascibility of its owner. Frivolous and capricious people most often have slightly upturned noses. Well, a wide and thick nose indicates the rudeness of a person.

Mouth

A small mouth is often found in weak-willed people. If a person's upper lip is slightly larger than the lower, he is a real egoist. And the protruding lower lip characterizes a person who is used to getting what he wants from life. A narrow mouth is a clear sign of stealth. Well, plump lips indicate the laughter and courage of a person.

The chin

Often strong people who independently achieve their goals have a large and well-defined chin. Modest and insecure people, on the contrary, have a small and inexpressive chin.